Spin: Okay yes sometimes women let themselves get played

[Turbulent]

He lead her to believe that he was after something more than the physical. Like they clicked and "found each other" blah blah blah. She's susceptible to that bs and he took advantage of that

 

[Turbulent]

A lot of women are dumb when it comes to dating because they have limited options. Think about it. There are more women available than men. Women also have to deal with aging. So a lot of them deal with bullshyt out of desperation and the fear of not being able to find someone better.

If you're a decent dude you will always find women. The smart men use this power to their advantage.

A lot of women are fukking the same small group of men. There is no need to lie to women. You'll get further being completely honest.

and ad to that that women typically don't approach men so their options are limited to whoever approaches them/makes a move on them. they basically have to be constantly ready (physically, mentally) to be approached and hope for the moment. so once they find a dude they feel like they can breath a little, they don't want to go back to that old life. so they compromise on certain things...

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

As we've seen advocated (@malcolmxxx_45 ) some men will go well out of their way to deceive a female just to get what they want. But as females it's nothing new we've been raised to have this as the default understanding of men's behaviour i.e. "they're only after one thing"

However when it comes to one specific guy, he stops being "they". All of a sudden "there's always an exception" and he's "different" Females then convince themselves of a new set of rules, one where the guy is also heading towards a relationship and they share a telepathic understanding and commitment to this.

It's not always about money or wanting to lock down a good catch. Take a friend of mine who just wanted "a boyfriend" she wanted companionship on top of the physical. But she slept with the guy and then brought up the "where are we going". Obviously the guy said he wasn't looking for anything serious, it's just fun. Then she got mad and I as her friend obviously got mad as well.

Truth be told the guy was a bit of an ass, from what she told me they did all those intimate conversations and the compliments blah blah blah to me that would have screamed "he's only after one thing" it's textbook but to her that meant "he really likes me". Obviously the truth is a very difficult thing to say to someone who's hurt so after a few months I sugar-coated it all the way just so she'd reflect on it and understand that maybe she shouldn't have played along and gotten played in return.

So yes, ladies sometimes there is bringing it upon yourself by falling for the lines and forgetting the golden rule "they're only after one thing"

Mad me think about a thread I had a few months back

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/fukk...n-fukkin-psycho-unappreciation-thread.195333/

Never again

 

[aXiom]

There's a glitch when you like the guy

I wouldn't call it a glitch. Y'all just let y'all emotions take the steering wheel. When its with a guy youre not interested in your reasoning works just fine and he gets placed in the friendzone, his "rightful" place.

 

[Raava]

I don't like your generalizations, just as bad as some of these guys on here.

Some women are like that I guess, some have to learn the hard way, and some never learn. There are also some women who know exactly what's going on.

There is a such thing as intuition, its whether you listen or not. Just like having a friend who you give guy advice to but they don't listen. There are also women who mess up thinking they can change a guys mind. Most of the time it's a woman desperate for a relationship trying to force one.

 

[Vodun]

i will say this and leave it alone women are attracted to men who make them FEEL a certain type of way, WOMEN operate off of FEELINGS, for women when it comes to dating they don't use logic like men do. that's why you see so many women with the wrong men because that man made HER FEEL A CERTAIN WAY when they met. now over time once those feelings wear off then they start complaining because he's not making her feel that way anymore.


there are certain basic attractions triggers that women most women have. regardless of your stats, income, swag. as long as you meet and satisfy those basic primal needs which in turn produces positives feelings she will give you play, until she gets tired and your not giving her those emotional highs and lows,

 

[KOOL-AID]

@61 Corpses read your rep comment...you have to go thru my boo @KOOL-AID.

we got a problem baby

 

[61 Corpses]

@KOOL-AID she's all yours breh