I have 4 sons. 1 is dark and physical the most attractive now that they are older ... But when they were younger .... the lightest 2 with longer hair and curly hair Black Women would make the most Cringeworthy Bullshyt comments about them 2 only. Even my own mother and older women in my family ...would punish the darker two more We have to understand how deep brainwashing goes. My sons are more privileged than the average lil nikkas growing up so most of this wont really affect them but When you combine being in the hood, with the media, with our women who control the culture (along with gay nikkas)..... then I can see how some guys build up a resentment from being prejudged. On the flipside... one of my cousin was called a soft lightkin fakkit ass nikka his whole life.... he became a savage to overcompensate. A bunch of al b sure, genwine style nikkas overcompensated because of the association of light with more feminine.