Spinoff: Are older sisters the only group of women that gives young men realistic dating advice?

[lib123]

Spinoff from this old thread where gems were dropped:

Women are programmed to never give men the advantage in the dating game

If you've ever been in the friend zone, or been around sisters, female cousins, aunt's etc... Notice how they never gave you the 1 up in the dating world. You had to just pick up on shyt. The things alpha male strategies talks about and preaches is stuff that women already know. But you'll...

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Seems like older sisters are the only group of women by and large that keeps it real with their younger brothers as far as dating advice. Women who are close in age seem to give advice on how to be the Plan B fall back safe dude for when they get older. Older women including mothers give advice from the perspective of what they find attractive now, not when they were young. Also even if mothers wanna give the real to their sons, they don’t wanna open the door to questions about their younger dating history. Older sisters give advice like India in the video below.

 

[Ahadi]

Sisters - Only if you’re in proximity to her / her friends and you’re listening to their convos / how the move.

Moms / Single Moms - it’s a toss up, but majority of the time no (they will set you up for failure). They’ll teach you how to be the man they wished for, not the man who got your mom. But if she’s a “boy mom” then she might look out for her son especially when she sees girls potentially using him because she was once that girl.

And that becomes a rude awakening for guys who followed the “good” path.

 

[King Poetic]

No

Like how these women always yell Kevin Samuels shouldn’t give advice because he’s not married

None of these women should give advice at all , especially when only 25% of sisters are married and majority will never get married

She shouldn’t give advice, as well as Lisa Raye, Viviva Fox, Claudia Jordan, Tia Mowry, Tracee Ellis Ross, Eboni K Williams, Oprah And the Kevin Samuels copycat Kendra G…

This broad India trying to keep her name afloat so she doing anything for a bag and wouldn’t even take her own advice

Each person is different regardless of age

I rather listen to a young sister who been in a solid relationship for a long time and planning on marriage compared to a 40 year old single mom of 2 who been passed around for 20 years with no hope

 

[lib123]

No

Like how these women always yell Kevin Samuels shouldn’t give advice because he’s not married

None of these women should give advice at all , especially when only 25% of sisters are married and majority will never get married

She shouldn’t give advice, as well as Lisa Raye, Viviva Fox, Claudia Jordan, Tia Mowry, Tracee Ellis Ross, Eboni K Williams, Oprah And the Kevin Samuels copycat Kendra G…

This broad India trying to keep her name afloat so she doing anything for a bag and wouldn’t even take her own advice

Each person is different regardless of age

I rather listen to a sister who been in a solid relationship for a long time and planning on marriage compared to a 40 year old single mom of 2 who been passed around for 20 years with no hope

True but sisters are more likely to tell young brehs the nice guy stuff won’t work and that the girl should be more interested in the breh than vice versa.

 

[lib123]

Sisters - Only if you’re in proximity to her / her friends and you’re listening to their convos / how the move.

Moms / Single Moms - it’s a toss up, but majority of the time no (they will set you up for failure). They’ll teach you how to be the man they wished for, not the man who got your mom.

And that becomes a rude awakening for guys who followed the “good” path.

Facts. At a minimum sisters seem more likely to tell young brehs what won’t work or if they’re moving wrong.

 

[Ahadi]

Facts. At a minimum sisters seem more likely to tell young brehs what won’t work or if they’re moving wrong.

Exactly. They’ll give you a little sprinkle of advice, but they won’t make you a demon / fukk boy lol cause they gotta protect the sisterhood

 

[cyndaquil]

There was a woman who disguised herself as a man and went on speed dating and thought it was gonna be easy. She got rejection after rejection.

I wouldn't go to a straight woman and ask her how to act around women to create atrraction. Rather ask them how to make yourself look more attractive. Maybe a tattoo, some new clothes, a different haircut might suit you, losing some weight etc.

The only exception I will make are hoes (prostitutes/madams) and lesbians. Both of them give good advice because they are used to dealing with other women in that manner not "friendships".

So unless your mama or sister is/was a hoe I'd be skeptical of the advice lol

 

[lib123]

There was a woman who disguised herself as a man and went on speed dating and thought it was gonna be easy. She got rejection after rejection.

I wouldn't go to a straight woman and ask her how to act around women to create atrraction. Rather ask them how to make yourself look more attractive. Maybe a tattoo, some new clothes, a different haircut might suit you, losing some weight etc.

The only exception I will make are hoes (prostitutes/madams) and lesbians. Both of them give good advice because they are used to dealing with other women in that manner not "friendships".

So unless your mama or sister is/was a hoe I'd be skeptical of the advice lol

Lol good points. At least sisters will be more honest as far as telling you the nice guy stuff or "make sure you like her more than she likes you" won't work.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Hoes give good advice about women. This gon hurt but sisters will give honest advice...because a lot of our sisters ARE hoes. Literally. Sorry to break it to you

 

[lib123]

Hoes give good advice about women. This gon hurt but sisters will give honest advice...because a lot of our sisters ARE hoes. Literally. Sorry to break it to you

Lol even if your sister ain’t a hoe she knows how hoes move and she gets second hand embarrassment from having a younger brother simping over hoes. That plays a role too.

 

[010101]

listen to a bird that chose to get ran.......... NONSENSE

all you can do is either be born to a rare family that will lace you right or somehow survive being misguided long enough to lace yourself right

aHA

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[ConPHIdential]

Hoes give good advice about women. This gon hurt but sisters will give honest advice...because a lot of our sisters ARE hoes. Literally. Sorry to break it to you

This is correct.