Spinoff: Ladies, Tell Us Stories of Men Being Oblivious to Your Advances

[23Barrettcity]

I am working on this... I don't have the guts...tho

At least your honest : salute: a lot of women play it off like Ohhh I don't need to chase guys while guys they may like take that as disinterest . You seem like a cool chick so simple things like being friendly making sure to say hi to the guy you like , ask them if they'd like coffee etc when your doing snack breaks , if you see him reading inquire about that or if they have like any blatant hobbies can just ask about it . These little things help build up a connection and will make you feel comfortable talking to him .

 

[23Barrettcity]

Still to the average man that would push us away.
You can't be on some
You - "Ughhh what do you want '
Dude - " I was trying to see if u knew where you got those scrimps" * walks away*

You - " why didn't he pick up on my signs. I clearly was interested in him"

Exactly there is playful teasing/banter and there's being a bytch . Nothing about a woman being mean rude to me makes me say ohhhhhh she wants the d . I dont want to be looking all thirsty pursuing some woman who showed me disdain

 

[Arianne Martell]

At least your honest : salute: a lot of women play it off like Ohhh I don't need to chase guys while guys they may like take that as disinterest . You seem like a cool chick so simple things like being friendly making sure to say hi to the guy you like , ask them if they'd like coffee etc when your doing snack breaks , if you see him reading inquire about that or if they have like any blatant hobbies can just ask about it . These little things help build up a connection and will make you feel comfortable talking to him .

Thanks for the tip.

But what do I do if I only see them randomly and for some seconds...for instance, this week I saw one of the guy and he smiled and I smiled back and he said hello and I said hi and we both kept walking it happened twice in one week back to back, so how can I step it up?

The other guy...is at the gym...I kinda nailed down the days he is there too...and we randomly cross each other's path at the gym because he is always playing ball...the last time we cross I smiled..but I must have looked like an idiot because he barely smiled back...

And I know that he likes me for a fact because my workout partner told me that he was interested but he felt like he couldn't walk up to me cause I am intimidating...and by this I mean that when I go to the gym is to work out...I don't socialize or smile straight up

so what do I do?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I don't want to pass those genes to my children...especially if you are bald and your head is all types of crooked and lop-sided or a big ass head...

shyt my father passed me the genes.

**WARNING COLI MEMBERS**
**COLI MEMBER EXPOSES HIMSELF AND HIS FAMILY**

My father is on the far right and I'm next to him.

 

[youreWelcomeBk]

We ugly breh.
These hoes don't want us but for favors.

 

[Arianne Martell]

@FLYINHAWAIIAN

You don't look bad bald, your head is symmetrical with your face but is it flat in the back?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Exactly there is playful teasing/banter and there's being a bytch . Nothing about a woman being mean rude to me makes me say ohhhhhh she wants the d . I dont want to be looking all thirsty pursuing some woman who showed me disdain

They don't understand breh
If you act mean/uninterested to us we gond take it as a sign to keep it moving.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Thanks for the tip.

But what do I do if I only see them randomly and for some seconds...for instance, this week I saw one of the guy and he smiled and I smiled back and he said hello and I said hi and we both kept walking it happened twice in one week back to back, so how can I step it up?

The other guy...is at the gym...I kinda nailed down the days he is there too...and we randomly cross each other's path at the gym because he is always playing ball...the last time we cross I smiled..but I must have looked like an idiot because he barely smiled back...

And I know that he likes me for a fact because my workout partner told me that he was interested but he felt like he couldn't walk up to me cause I am intimidating...and by this I mean that when I go to the gym is to work out...I don't socialize or smile straight up

so what do I do?

Show more interest. Speak.
Just cuz u smiled don't mean nttn.
Women put on fake smiles too to seem nice.
shyt the $29.99 hair hat thot at the McDonald's register gone smile at me too but don't mean she interested.

 

[Arianne Martell]

They don't understand breh
If you act mean/uninterested to us we gond take it as a sign to keep it moving.

yelp

someone should come up for a universal sign of "I'm interested in you"

 

[Arianne Martell]

Show more interest. Speak.
Just cuz u smiled don't mean nttn.
Women put on fake smiles too to seem nice.
shyt the $29.99 hair hat thot at the McDonald's register gone smile at me too but don't mean she interested.

ok, next time I'm going to stop dude and ask for his name

 

[youreWelcomeBk]

This thread did not go in the direction I had hoped

They turned this thread around so quick

I was hoping to learn something new for the Weekend

 

[23Barrettcity]

Thanks for the tip.

But what do I do if I only see them randomly and for some seconds...for instance, this week I saw one of the guy and he smiled and I smiled back and he said hello and I said hi and we both kept walking it happened twice in one week back to back, so how can I step it up?

The other guy...is at the gym...I kinda nailed down the days he is there too...and we randomly cross each other's path at the gym because he is always playing ball...the last time we cross I smiled..but I must have looked like an idiot because he barely smiled back...

And I know that he likes me for a fact because my workout partner told me that he was interested but he felt like he couldn't walk up to me cause I am intimidating...and by this I mean that when I go to the gym is to work out...I don't socialize or smile straight up

so what do I do?

Where is the first guy at ? That's a factor . I'd suggest a hi how you doing to keep it conversational .and go from there
The gym ? You answered your own question , he thinks your intimidating so be more friendly say hi how's it goin or ask a question like who won when you see him leavibg the court or if you rub across him In The actual gym day no ball today ?

 

[23Barrettcity]

yelp

someone should come up for a universal sign of "I'm interested in you"

I ride the subways here in NYC you know how hard it Is to judge if me and the girl across from me are making eye contact or she's interested

 

[Arianne Martell]

Where is the first guy at ? That's a factor . I'd suggest a hi how you doing to keep it conversational .and go from there
The gym ? You answered your own question , he thinks your intimidating so be more friendly say hi how's it goin or ask a question like who won when you see him leavibg the court or if you rub across him In The actual gym day no ball today ?

The first guy works in the building and I see him in the afternoon on my way to the gym...rarely...the day I knew he was interested for real when we passed each other I turned around when I reached the elevator and he had just finished looking at me from behind...with a smile on his face.

Gym guy...I'll do that see where it goes...

 

[Arianne Martell]

I ride the subways here in NYC you know how hard it Is to judge if me and the girl across from me are making eye contact or she's interested

yeah, I don't know how men do it! shyt must be tiring...