Spinoff: Ladies, Tell Us Stories of Men Being Oblivious to Your Advances

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

@FLYINHAWAIIAN

You don't look bad bald, your head is symmetrical with your face but is it flat in the back?

Nah I got that same hump in the back y'all be feeling when y'all vice gripping y'all legs and holding our head when we deep sea diving

 

[Arianne Martell]

Nah I got that same hump in the back y'all be feeling when y'all vice gripping y'all legs and holding our head when we deep sea diving

good!

cause, that flat cranium in the back is weird...my friend is like that...in the front is normal and the back is flat...like where is your brain b??

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

yelp

someone should come up for a universal sign of "I'm interested in you"

:dwill:

There is one.
Its called "show CLEAR signs"

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

All I'm learning from this thread is that dating can be exhausting. People are in here saying that easily misinterpreted things(such as asking for help, or staring at a man for .3 more seconds than usual) is comparable to walking up to a person and talking to them. I'm learning that I'm not missing out by not assuming everything that a woman does is a sign of interest and checking for these women who play these ridiculous games.

 

[Arianne Martell]

:dwell:

There is one.
Its called "show CLEAR signs"

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

ok, next time I'm going to stop dude and ask for his name

shyt might as well.
Atleast he will think "she seems interested in me"
Now if you work as a bank teller and ask his name, that's not gone do nttn cuz thats what your spots to do.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

They turned this thread around so quick

I was hoping to learn something new for the Weekend

You might wanna read the pages.
The brehettes gave input

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

All I'm learning from this thread is that dating can be exhausting. People are in here saying that easily misinterpreted things(such as asking for help, or staring at a man for .3 more seconds than usual) is comparable to walking up to a person and talking to them. I'm learning that I'm not missing out by not assuming everything that a woman does is a sign of interest and checking for these women who play these ridiculous games.

Then don't worry about signs.
If you feeling the chick then come at her.
If you pondering if a chick is giving you signs, but you not feeling her then it wouldn't matter.

 

[23Barrettcity]

:madfisher:

The first guy works in the building and I see him in the afternoon on my way to the gym...rarely...the day I knew he was interested for real when we passed each other I turned around when I reached the elevator and he had just finished looking at me from behind...with a smile on his face.

Gym guy...I'll do that see where it goes...

the first guy just next time say hey how you been , how's your summer been ? I've been caught doing the same lmao and I got to play it off like im looking for something in the distance :gladfisher::umadfisher:

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Then don't worry about signs.
If you feeling the chick then come at her.
If you pondering if a chick is giving you signs, but you not feeling her then it wouldn't matter.

Thats how it is. I introduce myself and get a conversation going if I'm interested in her, or give her attention if she can step to me like an adult and do the same. None of these childish games

 

[Arianne Martell]

All I'm learning from this thread is that dating can be exhausting. People are in here saying that easily misinterpreted things(such as asking for help, or staring at a man for .3 more seconds than usual) is comparable to walking up to a person and talking to them. I'm learning that I'm not missing out by not assuming everything that a woman does is a sign of interest and checking for these women who play these ridiculous games.

This is basically it.

For instance, this guy at the gym...we walked up to the elevator at the same time, he initiated the conversation by asking me where I am from? I told him and he said yeah I figure you are not from here. He had an accent and I asked where he is from, he answered...and I told him hello neighbor cause we share the same island and started talking etc. I continued to entertain the convo...because I was thinking of networking opportunities...him not so much...he asked for my number and I gave it to him and told him maybe we should grab lunch. etc. cool

he calls me outside working hours and don't pick up...when he sees me at the gym he asked why I didn't' pick up? ..gave him some bullshyt lie that I was out of town...bla bla bla...but I still kept it friendly with him...now every time at the guy this dude wants to interrupt my workouts by initiating convos...he asked me out to dinner, I gave him another lie...I don't like to go out when is raining needless to say...he finally got the hint.

I say all this to say that yeah a woman may smile and be nice to you but that does not mean that she is thinking about sleeping with you. This also applies to women.


I have so many examples of men from an obese man on a wheelchair to a former perverted supervisor) trying to get with me because of just me being civil with the opposite sex.

 

[Arianne Martell]

:madfisher: the first guy just next time say hey how you been , how's your summer been ? I've been caught doing the same lmao and I got to play it off like im looking for something in the distance :gladfisher::umadfisher:

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Thats how it is. I introduce myself and get a conversation going if I'm interested in her, or give her attention if she can step to me like an adult and do the same. None of these childish games

Pretty much.
But what we look at as childish games, they normal activity for them cuz theyre not used to being straight foward

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

:madfisher: the first guy just next time say hey how you been , how's your summer been ? I've been caught doing the same lmao and I got to play it off like im looking for something in the distance :gladfisher::umadfisher:

shyt when I catch eye contact I play start digging in my pocket and looking down at what I pulled out like I was really looking for them two lint pennies

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

This is basically it.

For instance, this guy at the gym...we walked up to the elevator at the same time, he initiated the conversation by asking me where I am from? I told him and he said yeah I figure you are not from here. He had an accent and I asked where he is from, he answered...and I told him hello neighbor cause we share the same island and started talking etc. I continued to entertain the convo...because I was thinking of networking opportunities...him not so much...he asked for my number and I gave it to him and told him maybe we should grab lunch. etc. cool

he calls me outside working hours and don't pick up...when he sees me at the gym he asked why I didn't' pick up? ..gave him some bullshyt lie that I was out of town...bla bla bla...but I still kept it friendly with him...now every time at the guy this dude wants to interrupt my workouts by initiating convos...he asked me out to dinner, I gave him another lie...I don't like to go out when is raining needless to say...he finally got the hint.

I say all this to say that yeah a woman may smile and be nice to you but that does not mean that she is thinking about sleeping with you. This also applies to women.


I have so many examples of men from an obese man on a wheelchair to a former perverted supervisor) trying to get with me because of just me being civil with the opposite sex.

Exactly, so why did you smile at him as you giving him a sign?


Y'all brehettes and y'all contradicting selves.

"Just cuz we're at the club and I rubbed my ass on you don't mean I want you "

"I rubbed my ass on him. Why can't he tell I want him "