I dont know brehs, I mean to each his own. Still, the flippant attitude towards dating a woman with kids illustrates just how fukked up things are with a lot of so called Black families. Too many dudes arent ashamed or shamed enough for not raising their own kids. Too many women are hellbent on raising kids alone which is especially detrimental to young males. Then the dudes that want to get involved with a ready made family in the form of a woman with kid(s) by another man are discouraged from doing so as depicted from posts in this thread. To take it even further abortions are frowned upon as destruction of Black life. Yet, these same kids grow up in fukked up enviroments and often enough become a plague themselves in society. One has to wonder if encouraging dudes to become stepdads isnt a bad thing. At the least not discouraging them from finding out whatever way it turns out.