"Stop telling my nigha's business"...

[murksiderock]

Ladies of The Coli, do yall agree with this? Fellas, yall can chime in too

Let me say that years and years ago, my stepmother, who is currently 56 but was probably early 40s when she told me this, told me that, her mother, told her when she was young, sage advice that she lives by: don't ask a man no question you don't want the answer to, and don't go digging for shyt that ain't came for you...

I've always remembered her sharing that, and that mantra seems to align with this chick's perspective too...

I'm not really judgemental, live and let live so if this works for some women, doesn't bother me at all. I will say I can't find no woman who rock like this because when I do I'm marrying her ...

 

[murksiderock]

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[MasterThought]

What's there to really say? This one particular woman doesn't give AF while other women would.

Just like theres literally been songs from male singers on some "I don't waaaaana know, if she's playing games....keep it on the low"



Some people care and some people don't. Lots of variables are involved.


Some people have lower self-worth than others and don't mind the thought of their partner cheating as long as they don't find out.

Some people's self-worth is so low that they don't care even if they DO find out.

The woman in this particular video is telling the world that she wouldn't care even if the other woman called her up and told her.

The could be just that good or maybe he takes complete care of her financially $$$ and she doesn't have to work, like I said different variables involved with different people.

 

[murksiderock]

What's there to really say? This one particular woman doesn't give AF while other women would.

Just like theres literally been songs from male singers on some "I don't waaaaana know, if she's playing games....keep it on the low"



Some people care and some people don't. Lots of variables are involved.


Some people have lower self-worth than others and don't mind the thought of their partner cheating as long as they don't find out.

Some people's self-worth is so low that they don't care even if they DO find out.

The woman in this particular video is telling the world that she wouldn't care even if the other woman called her up and told her.

The could be just that good or maybe he takes complete care of her financially $$$ and she doesn't have to work, like I said different variables involved with different people.

I agree of course different things work for different people...

But I'm a big believer in, don't go looking for shyt. If something is meant to be found out it'll surface organically, I don't go looking for bad news. I just take an optimistic approach to life in general...