Study says women initiate divorce...but blame cheating men

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Surprised the coli hasn't posted this:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/11/divorce-facts_n_5575693.html

According to new research, women are more likely than men to want out of a marriage -- and they're also more willing to actually end it.
The Austin Institute, which is dedicated to academic research on family, sexuality, social structures and human relationships, surveyed over 15,000 adults -- nearly 4,000 of which were divorcees -- for their "Relationships in America" study. The results give insight into why couples call it quits.

1. Women, more so than men, are more likely to be unhappy in a marriage.
When participants were asked if they had thought about leaving their partner in the last year, 20 percent of married women said yes compared to only 13 percent of married men.

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2. Women are more likely to want a divorce and are historically more likely to file.
According to research cited by the Austin Institute, more women have filed for divorce over a 125-year period than men. So it's not surprising that when asked who wanted out of the marriage more, both partners were more likely to say it was the wife.

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3. Infidelity was the most cited reason for divorce.
According to the report, cheating was the most-cited reason for divorce when both participants' own infidelity and spousal infidelity were taken into account. Other top reasons among both genders include:
  • Infidelity by either party: 37 percent
  • Spouse unresponsive to your needs: 32 percent
  • Grew tired of making a poor match work: 30 percent
  • Spouse’s immaturity: 30 percent
  • Emotional abuse: 29 percent
  • Financial priorities/spending patterns: 24 percent
  • Alcohol and drug abuse: 23 percent
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As men, I dont think we are built for monogamy. Women just might be better suited for it. :manny: Generally speaking, of course.
 

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It says 37 percent due to infidelity by either party.....but the graphs show that men want out of marriage more because of infidelity :patrice:

Misleading thread title
 

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It says 37 percent due to infidelity by either party.....but the graphs show that men want out of marriage more because of infidelity :patrice:

Misleading thread title
Overlooked on my part.
Not misleading.

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1. Women, more so than men, are more likely to be unhappy in a marriage.
When participants were asked if they had thought about leaving their partner in the last year, 20 percent of married women said yes compared to only 13 percent of married men.
In general, we men can /should take responsibility for #2 and #2 but I blame #1 on women themselves.

They grow up and all their lives they put marriage on a pedestal as if it's the ultimate goal in life. Then they get to a certain age and it hasnt happened and they become ready to marry the first mofo that proposes...only to get married and it turns out not to be what they thought it would be. Next thing you know they are unhappy
 

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In general, we men can /should take responsibility for #2 and #2 but I blame #1 on women themselves.

They grow up and all their lives they put marriage on a pedestal as if it's the ultimate goal in life. Then they get to a certain age and it hasnt happened and they become ready to marry the first mofo that proposes...only to get married and it turns out not to be what they thought it would be. Next thing you know they are unhappy

Any coli ladies care to comment on this idea that women get more social pressure to marry than men?
 
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