NeilCartwright
All Star
This sums it up perfectly.
I'm in the military and I have to "play the game" with cac superiors. But a breh was our supervisor and he wanted us to show him around town and get bent.
Dapped him up and everything

This sums it up perfectly.

The head nod





while I would get buckets 

sometimes
but I wouldn't have it any other way 
Deadass the nod with a random nikka is
Cacs:Did you know him?
Me:Nope

The head nod

walking into work still awkward in 2017Deadass the nod with a random nikka is
Cacs:Did you know him?
Me:Nope


For me its when I wear my natural hair (no wand curls or flat iron). Black women always smile then start convos and Black men compliment. White people do too but theres intimacy and acceptance when Black people do it. It feels like when family praises you for good grades. When whites do it, its shallow and awkward. Always reminds me of who's team Im on.
I always get compliments on mine and white folks be like "I wish my hair could do thatDreadlocks.
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" or the ones that have em (
) are like "You got any tips
?" Me:

These are negative examples but relevant. Both took place in Houston.
I used to catch 2 buses from 3 Ward to downtown at night when I cocktailed. One time I was sitting at the bus stop and a Black guy comes over to me and says "Sweetheart this is where I hustle, walk over there to the next stop. Ill make sure you're safe."
Another time I was at the stop trying to get back to 3rd Ward from downtown. I used to always see the same 3 Black people people at this stop: 2 older woman and a very young teenager. Its weird tho cause the young guy never got on the bus. I overheard once the Black women talking about the boy selling drugs at the stop. So one night Im at the spot and its 2 white boys there. They had never been there at that time but I observed them and peeped their convo, they were UH students and foreign. So I see the young Black guy approaching but when he sees the white boy he hesitates. So he finds my glance and without saying anything I could see he was asking if it was cool for him to come over. So I nod and he comes stand at the spot as usual. After that the only time we ever interacted is when he would sometimes ask me if to look and see if the police were around the corner. Im like how did I get into this lil boy's hustle lol??
