Surprise from your gf

[daiquiridream]

How (besides physically) has a woman surprised you in a way that made you never want to leave her? Outside of holidays when is the time she surprised you in a way that really means a lot to you? Seeing couples splitting up lately has me a lil paranoid...

 

[jdubnyce]

Seeing couples splitting up lately has me a lil paranoid...

Paranoid?
Are you in a relationship?

 

[daiquiridream]

Paranoid?
Are you in a relationship?

Well we're not rushing into marriage and we still openly flirt with other people for fun. I want to reassure myself that this is a real relationship. I would like to do whatever I can for him to fall more in love with me so I can be confident we're gonna stay exclusive for the time being.

Edit: the flirting is liking other people's thirst traps on FB

 

[Germms]

When I came home from my last deployment my now wife had the apartment super clean, got my car cleaned and detailed, cooked dinner, had bunch of Nike sweatsuits in like 3 colors, 3 pairs of shoes, a new wallet cus I lost it, and a new ps5 that I barely play now. I forgot all about that horrible deployment and I’ll never forget that home coming. Thoughtful women will do that and more.

Don’t let the doom squad ruin your perspective of relationships. Take initiative on your own if you feel like things aren’t right.

Edit: if you flirtin with other ppl tho that shyt gotta stop or yall gotta stop.

 

[The God Poster]

Well we're not rushing into marriage and we still openly flirt with other people for fun. I want to reassure myself that this is a real relationship. I would like to do whatever I can for him to fall more in love with me so I can be confident we're gonna stay exclusive for the time being.

He’s privately fukking other people for fun too

 

[Redwood]

Well we're not rushing into marriage and we still openly flirt with other people for fun. I want to reassure myself that this is a real relationship. I would like to do whatever I can for him to fall more in love with me so I can be confident we're gonna stay exclusive for the time being.

"Flirt?"

 

[Ty Daniels]

Step 1. Stop "Flirting with Other People For Fun"!
Step 2. You can't make someone "Fall More In Love" with you.
"Love" is a "Decision" that people make about how they feel/care about another person.

Healthy relationships have "Boundaries".

And a Man Typically won't fully commit to a Woman, he feels is "Not Exclusive" to him.
"Flirting" means that you are "Open" to other Men (that is how most Men View it).

Increase you intimacy with your partner (not just sex), but TRUST is a huge part in "Deciding" to Love a person or not.

 

[TRUEST]

Well we're not rushing into marriage and we still openly flirt with other people for fun. I want to reassure myself that this is a real relationship. I would like to do whatever I can for him to fall more in love with me so I can be confident we're gonna stay exclusive for the time being.

Umm hun. Might as well get started now on your onlyfans channel or whatever the hell it is they call that thing where sexually liberated women can thot like it’s 1999. Don’t let these coli b1tches shame you. It’s your body baby. Yours.

 

[daiquiridream]

"Flirt?"

Yes because I consider liking other people's thirst traps as flirting

 

[Redwood]

Yes because I consider liking other people's thirst traps as flirting

It's on the cusp of it but not fully

 

[Cat piss martini]

She caught her husband cheating on her
and gave me like 9k worth of his jewlery.
wasnt shyt for her to set his shyt on fire
so he didnt make too much of a fuss over
her pawning his shyt out of anger long as she didnt
divorce and leave him.
Made me feel special that she thought to give it to me.

 

[MajesticLion]

"make"

 

[TripleAgent]

Well we're not rushing into marriage and we still openly flirt with other people for fun. I want to reassure myself that this is a real relationship. I would like to do whatever I can for him to fall more in love with me so I can be confident we're gonna stay exclusive for the time being.

That "flirting" doesn't sound righ, unless you like threesomes or some shyt, but I digress.

You can't "make" him feel more for you. All you can do is be your best self and hope he sees you as his best option.

 

[Fill Collins]

He loves her, she loves him, they're getting married over here

Judging by your post, this isn't as stable as you claim it to be

To answer your question, she's a former now but I offhandedly mentioned a book someone ain't return to me years back

Three days later she got me a brand new copy

We were kids

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

How old are you, OP?

'Liking' a thirst trap isn't flirting anymore than watching porn = cheating.

You have trust/self esteem issues and need to get them straightened out. Until then, remain single.​