T/F: Some men watch porn b/c it 's the only time they feel like a real man, fantasizing about being in control of a woman

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Although mother wounds is a real thing and talking point in therapy
It has absolutely nothing to do with watching porn
People watch porn because many of us our voyeuristic and scared to admit it
Now I will contradict myself to an extent in that watching porn can correlate to certain kinks from your childhood
I will give you that talking point
But the base of men watching porn is that we are just fukking horny
Sometimes just beating your meat and getting the horniness out is just that
Sometimes a nikka just clearing his mind to get focused
It’s good to have conversations about certain topics but I’m very leery of male centered groups bringing up topics like this
That shyt becomes a predator round table unless this is a sex addiction group
Then I will give grace to that
But anything outside of that is sus my guy
If you not talking about bettering yourself in these groups or just letting your frustrations out
I ain’t talking about my sexuality or porn watching habits with another nikka

 

[Womb Raider]

awww how cute! they're in a circle holding hands!

 

[Unbothered]

There's some truth to that, particularly some rough sex sites that come to mind , the thrill is all about getting off on dominating and subjecting women.

Not all porn tho, it depends.

 

[Genos]

I watch because it adds a visual stimulation while I'm beating off. I don't fantasize I'm the guy

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

I don’t want porn anymore, but back when I did, do you know how many times I rubbed one out AFTER getting some p*ssy from an actual woman??


nikka…..


PLENTY.



So for many men, that statement is cap

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Porn is a very low risk way to feel a connection and feel attraction and attractive. But just understand that porn makes you lonelier.

Connecting with another human being is difficult and it comes with a lot of challenges and vulnerabilities, but porn is 100% a losing game

 

[Uachet]

Had this discussion at a men's group this morning. We were discussing mother wounds and this was brought uppien. Obviously pleasure is a major reason. But do think this plays a part as well?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Porn is a very low risk way to feel a connection and feel attraction and attractive. But just understand that porn makes you lonelier.

Connecting with another human is difficult and it comes with a lot of challenges and vulnerabilities, but porn is 100% a losing game

So is STD’s

Porn might actually be the safest option out here if you not in a relationship

 

[No_bammer_weed]

So is STD’s

Porn might actually be the safest option out here if you not in a relationship

There’s vaccines, prophylactics, and other measures that can and will protect you from diseases.

If you go through life obsessed over what can go wrong, while believing seeing some dude having sex with a woman for money is the only “safe” route you can find for a sexual connection you’re missing out on a lot life can offer.

Just saying

 

[O.T.I.S.]

There’s vaccines, prophylactics, and other measures that can and will protect you from diseases.

If you go through life obsessed over what can go wrong, while believing seeing some dude having sex with a woman for money is the only “safe” route you can find for a sexual connection you’re missing out on a lot life can offer.

Just saying

Not trying to get some long lasting diseases just to fukk a bunch of random birds

How about finding you ONE chick and stick with that? There are other things worse than porn. Porn should be just used as a last option but no one is sitting round thinking about “dominating” females watching this shyt… which is my point.

Going around and fukking any and everything isn’t good for your health either, my other point.

There aren’t “cures” for everything… ask Easy E or AI if you don’t believe that. this kinda talk is why chicks running around with sour p*ssy out here now

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Not trying to get some long lasting diseases just to fukk a bunch of random birds

How about finding you ONE chick and stick with that? There are other things worse than porn. Porn should be just used as a last option but no one is sitting round thinking about “dominating” females watching this shyt… which is my point.

Going around and fukking any and everything isn’t good for your health either, my other point.

There aren’t “cures” for everything… ask Easy E or AI if you don’t believe that. this kinda talk is why chicks running around with sour p*ssy out here now

You can believe having reckless sex with random strangers and looking to porn for a sexual connection are both unwise options and behaviors. It’s not one or the other

 

[Killer Instinct]

No. I watch porn to get a nut to prevent me from risking it all and then I go on about my day.

 

[Killer Instinct]

I don’t want porn anymore, but back when I did, do you know how many times I rubbed one out AFTER getting some p*ssy from an actual woman??


nikka…..


PLENTY.



So for many men, that statement is cap

My wife literally puts me to sleep and I'm still posted up in JBO.

 

[JuvenileHell]

I don't think it's that deep for most. But I'm not a man. I could be wrong.

you would be correct ma'am, it ain't that deep