Worthless Loser
Blackpilled
I wanted to share some realistic notes with members of #TeamUgly in order to avoid the false hope that many women here and people in society say to make people feel bettter or to give people false hope that their disadvantages are not a problem. This is kind of like an FAQ as well. Understand that the same women who are giving out this false hope wouldn't give you the time of day.
-The notion that there is somebody for everyone is bullshyt. If you are ugly, then you are not desireable. If you are ugly, you need either a 6 pack (for bird chicks), money and/or status (for materalistic chicks) be tall or an insane about of humor and charisma that can blind a woman to look past the fact that you're ugly and not someone she wants to be seen with. Oh, and black women like "swag". Whatever that means. So if you're ugly, but you have "swag", then you may have a shot. This is most likely the case with hoodrat chicks or basic chicks who have an imprudent mind.
-Do not listen to a woman when she says looks aren't the only thing and that other things such as character, personality and talent matters. While looks aren't the only thing, they are the primary thing and the same women who tell you that, are the same ones who look at physical attraction before everything and will shut down everything else if the physical attraction isn't there. They may like the other things like character, but they do not overcome physical attraction.
-Do not listen to a woman when she says that one person might find you ugly but another may not. We are judged in society by majorities. If the majority of people think something, then that opinion is regarded as the primary opinion in society. Example, most black people do not like the police therefore the opinion is "black people don't like the police." Therefore if the majority or good portion of women think you are ugly, then you are ugly based on majority rules that's been in society for centuries.
-Work on yourself. Do not look for validation from women if you are ugly. You will only get hurt and/or disappoined. Work on your professional career. Explore. Chase money. Focus on your interests and learn new things. Do what makes you happy. Put yourself into a position where you have peace of mind and security that's free of seeking female validation.
-It is ok to feel sad or depressed about being ugly. You were dealt a bad hand from "god" or our creator. Do not let anyone else tell you otherwise. There are many reasons to feel sad, depressed or disappointed. Being ugly is one thing on a long list of things. The important thing is to not let it consume you. It can lead to long term self hatred or hatred at "god", or even hatred at your parents for making you. This is where securing that peace of mind comes into place. It can help you when you go into these cycles of sadness.
-What should you do if you feel lonely? Become best friends with Palmela. If you haven't already.
-If someone gives you a compliment, should you believe them? Don't fall for it. Ugly people tend to get compliments from people to make them feel better. The most common compliment being "you look nice." The best case scenario is that the person really meant what they said, but understand they still think you look ugly. Don't put too much stock in it.
-If a woman is flirting with you, is she interested? No. She's just being nice to an ugly person. Do not misinterpret and get yourself played.
-Do not be friends with good looking dudes. No homo. You will become sad or depressed because you will watch the attention they get from women while you receive none or possibly get called names. Or, you may try to live vicariously through them which is incredibly dangerous from a psychological standpoint. It can lead to delusions or a false sense of happiness.
-You don't need to hate women. Just because you were dealt a bad hand of being ugly does not mean you have to hate women. You can still treat them with respect and admire them even if they would vomit in your presence. Treat them the way you'd want to treat your mother.
If I think of anything else I'll add here.
-The notion that there is somebody for everyone is bullshyt. If you are ugly, then you are not desireable. If you are ugly, you need either a 6 pack (for bird chicks), money and/or status (for materalistic chicks) be tall or an insane about of humor and charisma that can blind a woman to look past the fact that you're ugly and not someone she wants to be seen with. Oh, and black women like "swag". Whatever that means. So if you're ugly, but you have "swag", then you may have a shot. This is most likely the case with hoodrat chicks or basic chicks who have an imprudent mind.
-Do not listen to a woman when she says looks aren't the only thing and that other things such as character, personality and talent matters. While looks aren't the only thing, they are the primary thing and the same women who tell you that, are the same ones who look at physical attraction before everything and will shut down everything else if the physical attraction isn't there. They may like the other things like character, but they do not overcome physical attraction.
-Do not listen to a woman when she says that one person might find you ugly but another may not. We are judged in society by majorities. If the majority of people think something, then that opinion is regarded as the primary opinion in society. Example, most black people do not like the police therefore the opinion is "black people don't like the police." Therefore if the majority or good portion of women think you are ugly, then you are ugly based on majority rules that's been in society for centuries.
-Work on yourself. Do not look for validation from women if you are ugly. You will only get hurt and/or disappoined. Work on your professional career. Explore. Chase money. Focus on your interests and learn new things. Do what makes you happy. Put yourself into a position where you have peace of mind and security that's free of seeking female validation.
-It is ok to feel sad or depressed about being ugly. You were dealt a bad hand from "god" or our creator. Do not let anyone else tell you otherwise. There are many reasons to feel sad, depressed or disappointed. Being ugly is one thing on a long list of things. The important thing is to not let it consume you. It can lead to long term self hatred or hatred at "god", or even hatred at your parents for making you. This is where securing that peace of mind comes into place. It can help you when you go into these cycles of sadness.
-What should you do if you feel lonely? Become best friends with Palmela. If you haven't already.
-If someone gives you a compliment, should you believe them? Don't fall for it. Ugly people tend to get compliments from people to make them feel better. The most common compliment being "you look nice." The best case scenario is that the person really meant what they said, but understand they still think you look ugly. Don't put too much stock in it.
-If a woman is flirting with you, is she interested? No. She's just being nice to an ugly person. Do not misinterpret and get yourself played.
-Do not be friends with good looking dudes. No homo. You will become sad or depressed because you will watch the attention they get from women while you receive none or possibly get called names. Or, you may try to live vicariously through them which is incredibly dangerous from a psychological standpoint. It can lead to delusions or a false sense of happiness.
-You don't need to hate women. Just because you were dealt a bad hand of being ugly does not mean you have to hate women. You can still treat them with respect and admire them even if they would vomit in your presence. Treat them the way you'd want to treat your mother.
If I think of anything else I'll add here.
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