Texting vs calling

[Music Fiend]

We live in a weird age.

Sometimes, especially with females, I feel awkward texting em to make plans, especially if its like I'm tryna get them to fall through my spot or link up with em or take em out.

Ive actuallly had chicks tell me they don't like talking on the phone, but will blow up my phone with texts all day

But thats me, I don't like indirect communication, I prefer to chat and make plans in person but I'll settle for a phone call. But texting comes off real vagina like especially if I don't see this person that often, not to mention I'm horrible at returning texts.

is it cool these days to just text these females to make plans? Have we fallen that much as a society where thats acceptable?

 

[DallasTxRep]

Texting is just more convenient for a lot of people....but some people don't like texting because they have shyt to hide

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I personally hate talking on the phone, always have. I love texting tho.
My bf & I rarely talk on the phone tbh. I'd say we've spoken on the phone like 6 times since Aug.

 

[Codeine Crazy]

Man all i do is text....

When you look at my lil graph i be going in lol

the months that are low is because i started fukkin with WhatsApp & Google Voice and shyt like that. Usually did that when chicks started acting up.

 

[Couth]

i prefer to call. Faster and more personal. You can find out how she wants to do it in under ten minutes.

Whereas if you text you guys could be going back and forth all day tryna set something up.

But texting is cool to. Do what you feel.

If its your first time ever kicking it with her probably better to call or set something up in person though. That way you can hit her with a lil charm make it harder for her to say no.

 

[malbaker86]

I prefer texting too but when it comes to discussing plans or/and business, that's when it's easier to just call so there won't be any miscommunication

 

[mortuus est]

i like texting better, just in general, i listen to a lot of music and watch stuff so texting is bettter

when u trying to watch something and someone wants to talk on the phone so u have to cut your shyt and listen to some bullshyt


i never let anyone one disturb me when i watch the matrix

 

[Music Fiend]

I'm a bit arrogant and cocky with females especially if the vibe in person is that I can bag with effort.

Usuaylly I'd call and chat em up for a min, then ask em what they got going on tomorrow, then tell me I'm taking em out at 8 and to be ready.

80% of the time it worked. Usually, I'd get the "where?" and I'd just tell em just dress comfortably.

But now with texting it doesn't work.

Females now wanna hit me with the "well I gotta do this and this tomorrow, or the ur so cocky game of so ur just gonna tell me what to do, I'll let u know"

Usually at that point I just fallback and stop texting em. Thats why i liked talking on the phone, things dont get taken the wrong way and if I don't see em much, it doesn't come off like I'm just tryna smash. I rather talk on the phone for 3 minutes than text all day tryna plan a meet up.

 

[ThaBoyBam]

I prefer txt. Calls or email for business mainly.

I'm usually not in position to take calls.

 

[thewiz]

For me personally I'd rather text but most of the joints I talk to rather talk on the phone.. they be dry as hell when you text them but when you call they don't shut up lol I really don't get it

 

[Freedman]

Man thots always turn me into their pen pal and end up texting me all day bout random bullshyt

 

[MillionMills]

I'll let yall in on a little secret.

Since late 2013, every girl that I smashed, I've talked to on the phone.

You gotta stand out. Every nikka in her contact list is texting her. Girls love attention and just wanna do that fukkin texting all day. By the end of the work day, I'm sick of texting. I usually call girls I'm dating out the blue. And they love it. Every girl says "wow its nice that you call, guys never call me like that anymore". shyt works. Way easier to run game over the phone than texting all day like a high school kid. I swear Ive had phone conversations with every single girl I've taken down over the past 2 years.

 

[MillionMills]

Most girls aren't talkin bout shyt when they text you. Just random shyt thats going on that I have no clue about cuz I'm not with them. It's cool at first but I get tired of it. I call. Quick 15-20 minute convo can cover more than a whole day of texting

 

[Music Fiend]

Man thots always turn me into their pen pal and end up texting me all day bout random bullshyt

Right bro, I don't have the patience for that. Then i end up lookin like I dont wanna talk to em or take em seriously and I'm just tryna smash.

For me personally I'd rather text but most of the joints I talk to rather talk on the phone.. they be dry as hell when you text them but when you call they don't shut up lol I really don't get it

So how would you get at a chick via text you don't see often. We barely text. But I know shes feelin the boy cuz everytime we go out shes real receptive to me fondling her, kissing on her and what not. But when i text convo goes nowehre.

 

[Music Fiend]

Most girls aren't talkin bout shyt when they text you. Just random shyt thats going on that I have no clue about cuz I'm not with them. It's cool at first but I get tired of it. I call. Quick 15-20 minute convo can cover more than a whole day of texting

Exctly how I feel, it's not me tho. It seems like the females prefer me texting than calling. Hell I'll call em, they wont answer and will text me like 20 mins later.

Ish is frustrating especially if Im tryna make on the spot plans.