That Life

[Big Boda]

To those who've been through them streets before, how do you get back that ability to kinda trust people. People who winning in the jungle don't trust a Muthafka. However you can't be that way and function in square society. Is it worth looking for quality friendships in late 2014?

Speak on it. You can be ambiguous as to not selfsnitch.

 

[old_timer]

i like meeting new people and talking to folks
but i bring them along sloooowly

first 30 days i don't tell them where i am going
first 60 days i don't tell them anything about me i wouldn't want to be known
first 90 days i don't tell them what i am thinking etc.
(these are examples only- there's no exact timetable)

allowing time to pass lets you observe them
you mess up when people go from acquaintance to best buddy in like 2 weeks
without making sure they are the right kind of people
take the time to learn how they hold other people's secrets etc.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Just gotta be cool with people, but keep them at a distance. Not because you don't trust them, but because you're a lone wolf.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

All I know is you can't trust no one 100% ever. even your own family could do you in. as far as looking for actual friends, i'd say never help anyone that can't help themselves. friends are overrated anyway

 

[Couth]

I just play like i'm social. I charm people without actually telling them anything about myself. And it works pretty well too. Only problem i have is when people start asking to come around my apartment cuz i don't show any random nikkas where i live.

You shouldn't trust anyone. Ever. I don't trust my own mom. Never even speak something that you don't want the whole world to hear cuz nikkas got loud mouths. But even if you don't trust them you need to be able to build a mutual acquaintance. You gotta be able to establish yourself in a community if you wanna get money and bytches. I mean you can get them solo but its easier if you have dudes you can work with on your mutual goal.

And if your city is hot and you got money? Start investing now. Build an online business or something. And once you got enough cash generating move away. Go to miami and chill on the beach. Or texas and get a cheap house. Move into a working class area and just lay low. Get a job. If you still wanna make moves just don't deal with street dudes. That shyts dangerous. Instead deal with the whiteboys and college students looking to party and shyt. Much less likely to try some shyt. And you don't gotta worry about undercovers if you serve off your cell phone.