The father would have to be dead, and he died for an honorable reason. That was the only reason why I would even consider it.
So if he was just some deadbeat that had the luck to hit once and took off the condom and ghosted and left never made contact with her again, she's dq'd
There's a lot of dirty men out there. Shut, a lot of dirty women out there too.
I know a guy that had for 12 years of his biological kids life to be apart of it. Long story short her family had money and good lawyers, he went to paternity court with a lawyer that wasn't as good.
It was a one night stand 3 week dating relationship type deal. She got pregnant, her family assumed custody through the courts and that dude was like "fukk that, I'm not letting my child think it believe for a second they are unloved or unwanted" it took 12 years, but he finally got a decent custody deal. He didn't even see his daughter for the first 5 years of her life, not by choice but cause the mom and her family didn't want him to. The first time he met her was at a court hearing. Supervised.