We are people and in some cases animals have this way of trying to avoid regrets, but the most important thing you have to do in order to survive mentally is "live with their pain".
What I mean by that is accepting the fact that you fukked up in the past, but you can acknowledge it...love it....and love that person from afar, despite the issues that were caused. Shoot, NGL I have been dealing with regret for such a long time to the point I dream about it. Have nightmares that start up a week, but once I accepted it...and embrace it like a cross to bear, it motivates me to keep pushing towards self-healing.
From previous relationships to the lost of love ones, you have to acknowledge the pain you caused, and use that pain to fulfill a better you. For instance, it took being in the Book of Job timeline of my life to realize that I love my wife and son, to see that I have issues physically and mentally, and at the same time still love a woman from the past that I fukked over because of my own issues through childhood (Joey hood).
All in all, I could either sit in a corner and go mad, or just do my due diligence and drop gems for Coli brehs on these last days of a crumbling server.
TLDR Koala God Babble: Accept the pain you caused and the pain of your past, as a badge of honor to move towards the future away from the past. Life too short to engulf in the "could've would've should'ves".
What I mean by that is accepting the fact that you fukked up in the past, but you can acknowledge it...love it....and love that person from afar, despite the issues that were caused. Shoot, NGL I have been dealing with regret for such a long time to the point I dream about it. Have nightmares that start up a week, but once I accepted it...and embrace it like a cross to bear, it motivates me to keep pushing towards self-healing.
From previous relationships to the lost of love ones, you have to acknowledge the pain you caused, and use that pain to fulfill a better you. For instance, it took being in the Book of Job timeline of my life to realize that I love my wife and son, to see that I have issues physically and mentally, and at the same time still love a woman from the past that I fukked over because of my own issues through childhood (Joey hood).
All in all, I could either sit in a corner and go mad, or just do my due diligence and drop gems for Coli brehs on these last days of a crumbling server.
TLDR Koala God Babble: Accept the pain you caused and the pain of your past, as a badge of honor to move towards the future away from the past. Life too short to engulf in the "could've would've should'ves".