Based on how it’s applied/valued, someone who doesn’t value herself enough to aim higher and encourage her man to do the same. It’s like the female equivalent of Tupac in a business suit.
In a perfect world, it would mean she’s with you through the good and bad of your positive oriented life, counseling you to do better but not with the shyts per se-everyone takes Ls. But I listen to the show and one day a man was like “My pee is dirty for work, you got me with taking the test?” And she was right with it. A minor example but they tend to err on the “I effed up in a stupid way” side than “oh my business is tanking, help me fix this.”
I once had a partner who told me he was thinking of getting a gun for protection and I warned him about mandatory minimums in NYC and that no, I wouldn’t be visiting him in jail/prison should that happen. I considered myself ride or slide for him but nah, I wouldn’t allow my dude to be foolish nor would I support/coddle it, even as a teenager or young adult.