The Law of fukk Yes or No | There Are No Grey Areas in Dating

[DemureNatural]

There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. This grey area causes real, tangible issues. As a man, a huge question is often whether to be persistent and continue pursuing a woman even when she seems lukewarm or hot/cold on your advances. For women, a common question is what to do with men who make their feelings ambiguous.

“She said she’s not interested, but she still flirts with me, so what do I need to do to get her?”
“Well, I know she likes me, but she didn’t call me back last weekend, what should I do?”
“He treats me well when he’s around, but he’s hardly around. What does that mean?”

Most dating advice exists to “solve” this grey area for people. Say this line. Text her this. Call him this many times. Wear that.

Much of it gets exceedingly analytical, to the point where some men and women actually spend more time analyzing behaviors than actually, you know, behaving.

Frustration with this grey area also drives many people to unnecessary manipulation, drama and game-playing. This is where you get rules about making men pay for this many dates before you can become intimate. Or how men need to transition from attraction phase to comfort phase by qualifying three times before they’re allowed to commence an escalation ladder.

These things may seem clever and exciting to some people who are stuck or frustrated. But this dating advice misses the point. If you’re in the grey area to begin with, you’ve already lost.

"The Law of “fukk Yes or No” states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must inspire you to say “fukk Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.
The Law of “fukk Yes or No” also states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, THEY must respond with a “fukk Yes” in order for you to proceed with them."[/B

This article is so on point! Read the remainder of the article here
**UPDATE: I was informed that the link doesn't work...investigated it and the article has been removed...sorry for those who wanted to check it out. The crux of the article has been posted here for those who wish to have meaningful discussion regarding the topic

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

These dumbass articles and their fans are why so many of you women are single

 

[Medicate]

When I was younger nah....Now I do. You have to show your intended mate what you working with mental wise and social wise. That's just the game now. Its really been the game since the beginning of time.

All the other adlibs in that article means nothing. Your intended target will either accept the persuasion or deny it. Thats' what dating is for. You have to get into your partner's mind and heart and vice versa. Anyone blocking this method are basically not going to be a good catch.

 

[Matt504]

Everything is upside down in the new world.

 

[MikelArteta]

If you have to ponder if someone is feeling you most times than not they aren't.

Stop messing with wishy washy people who treat you like a old toy or a old dusty bible in a time of need of loneliness.



Start viewing you and your time as valuable

Screw all this corny articles and manipulative games / tactics.

 

[god shamgod]

Article isn't available when you click the link take your foghurn leghorn rooster hair and this article and

 

[Just like bruddas]

Either they feeling me or they dont. No need to waste time simping

 

[DemureNatural]

These dumbass articles and their fans are why so many of you women are single

Actually this article was written by a man, for men so they wouldn't waste their time chasing women who don't want them.

Carry on...

 

[DemureNatural]

If you have to ponder if someone is feeling you most times than not they aren't.

Stop messing with wishy washy people who treat you like a old toy or a old dusty bible in a time of need of loneliness.



Start viewing you and your time as valuable

Screw all this corny articles and manipulative games / tactics.

What's wrong w/ reading articles that speak to some segment of our society? It spawns a discussion on a forum...that's all.

But back to the topic, why persuade a person who doesn't want to you be involved with you? If I'm not excited a dude, I won't waste his time or mine...no hard feelings should be had. That's how the dating game goes.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Actually this article was written by a man, for men so they wouldn't waste their time chasing women who don't want them.

Carry on...

I knew that. Its still a stupid article.