The less you experience when young... The more...

[Music Fiend]

problems you will have in life in a overall view.

I don't understand how people thinking that putting off experience in all avenues of life will help them. We all know we are people of habit and repetition and learn through doing.

The only way to get good at something is to... Do it... A lot.


So many mental health and personal issues in this world can be fixed by doing things and experiencing them at the right time...

For example... The virgin who waits until after high school or college to have sex. Instead of experiencing life, the person likely will shy away from relationships all together. Now comes depression, loneliness, fear and anxiety of the act itself or being in a situation because you have waited so long that everyone knows what to do but you.

The person who doesn't make new friends his whole life then realizes when college comes or adult comes they are thrown into a world where they have to communicate and need other people from all walks of life.

Or the studious and focused person who works and studies their life away thinking obtaining some goal will make them happy with joy to find out their lack of life experiences make it hard to define themselves.


In ALL these situations there is some entitlement that forms because so much emphasis is placed upon what others view as normal occurance.

The virgin has sex and ends up in a relationship that doesn't work and cries that she or he gave away herself to someone who left her or him. The workaholic wants special treatment because she's a doctor or lawyer. The social outcast becomes mad and angry at his first real friend because duke has his own life and doesn't always wanna be around the cat. Etc.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

This is the coli son

We don't have those white people problems


- blackierobinson

 

[Music Fiend]

This is the coli son

We don't have those white people problems


- blackierobinson

Nikka plz u got more ppl on thecoli who have no friends, no life, no sex than most places. Fronting for the Internet.

I'm just saying man, I get so tired of hearing ppl complain about things you should have taken the time to participate in. When it was an even playing field

 

[MillionMills]

If a chick has not gotten her hoe phase out of her system before she met you,
She will go through her hoe phase while she is with you

 

[iFightSeagullsForBread]

My father gave me this advice five years ago that I hold dearly and will bestow it on you bros purely out of respect :

"You never wanna go through life going what if. Never wanna sit at your computer, staring at everybody else doing what they want , taking those risks. Life is too short to be a woulda, shoulda, I'm gonna ass person."

It's this bluntness that made me the person that takes it all in stride, and pushes for what he wants. The best advice I've gotten so far at only 18.

 

[Michael9100]

Use discernment before jumping into anything.....

The virgin who waits until after high school or college to have sex. Instead of experiencing life, the person likely will shy away from relationships all together. Now comes depression, loneliness, fear and anxiety of the act itself or being in a situation because you have waited so long that everyone knows what to do but you.

What? how many teen girls have "oops" babies due to them trying to "experience" life?....


It wouldn't be smart to take advice from someone as young as you.... Live life? Have you lived life? You aren't even old enough to be taken seriously... and it shows in what I quoted...

 

[Music Fiend]

If a chick has not gotten her hoe phase out of her system before she met you,
She will go through her hoe phase while she is with you

No one said a hoe. U have an even greater chance of a Woman who was a virgin when yall met leaving because she doesn't know she has a good deal out of lack of ecperience or just wanting to explore.

Everything is good as long as it's reasonable. A few to a handful of sex partners and a couple relationships is perfect for me.

 

[Colicat]

If a chick has not gotten her hoe phase out of her system before she met you,
She will go through her hoe phase while she is with you

 

[KplusK]

how about the people that goes the the things you say and is completely happy how they life turned out
to each they own

 

[Music Fiend]

Use discretion before taking risk.....



What? how many teen girls have "oops" babies due to them trying to "experience" life?....


It wouldn't be smart to take advice from someone as young as you.... Live life? Have you lived life? You aren't even old enough to be taken seriously... and it shows in what I quoted...

U lack wisdom if u do not understand the concept and able to apply it to other areas of life.

I'm not saying engaging in wreck less activity is cool. I'm merely saying some experiences are natural. Your suppression of that desire to do these natural things in an attempt to "accomplish" some goal or landmark usually backfires.

Use your head. Think for yourself and be reasonable.

 

[Music Fiend]

how about the people that goes the the things you say and is completely happy how they life turned out
to each they own

This does happen. None of these things embody happiness. But in order to know happiness you have to know the other side of the coin.

Experience ultimately reigns when it comes to getting what you want in this life.

The naïve may be happy out of ignorance sure. But it doesn't beat confidence stemming from a solid root of experience

 

[1/2OfDaBruinz]

I'm a big proponent of fukking up when you are young. I left the crib at 17 and never turned back, and I fukked up A LOT, almost to the point where I really fukked my future up. But I made it through and that shyt made me a better person.

I'm excellent with money because I fukked off so much money when I was young so I know how it feels to be wreckless, the highs and the lows of that shyt.

I'm very responsible because I was so damn irresponsible when I was younger
I don't stunt these bytches because I been there and done that already. A nikka can't tell me nothing bout these hoes.

I'm not trying to be no fake gangster because I had to sit down for a while over a dope charge and lose thousands in the process when I called myself being a D-Boy

I've struggled on my own enough to know how that shyt feels, so now, I never put myself in a position to be fukked up.

I'm humble because I've had situations in the past that have humbled me real quick.

I feel like an OG in this Life shyt, and that's because I live life fast at a young age. I was taking trips out the country in my early 20's.

If I wouldn't have had these experiences when I was young, I just would have had them when I got older, and you can't get away with the same shyt when you're older because you just don't bounce back the same. I was one of those can't tell me nothing ass nikkas. I had so many people in my corner that had my best interest at heart, but I just didn't listen. I just had to learn this game of life on my own. But I took my lumps, gained my life experience, and I'm straight now.

My lil cousin is 20 and my Aunt stay babying this nikka, not allowing him to fukk up Every time the nikka go broke, she right there putting money in the nikka account. I be trying to tell her to let the nikka feel what being broke feels like, because that's the only way he gonna learn to be responsible with his money. I be trying to get the nikka to come down and stay with me for the summer, cause I'm just gon' let the nikka fukk up and start figuring shyt out for himself

 

[Kobe24]

problems you will have in life in a overall view.

I don't understand how people thinking that putting off experience in all avenues of life will help them. We all know we are people of habit and repetition and learn through doing.

The only way to get good at something is to... Do it... A lot.


So many mental health and personal issues in this world can be fixed by doing things and experiencing them at the right time...

For example... The virgin who waits until after high school or college to have sex. Instead of experiencing life, the person likely will shy away from relationships all together. Now comes depression, loneliness, fear and anxiety of the act itself or being in a situation because you have waited so long that everyone knows what to do but you.

The person who doesn't make new friends his whole life then realizes when college comes or adult comes they are thrown into a world where they have to communicate and need other people from all walks of life.

Or the studious and focused person who works and studies their life away thinking obtaining some goal will make them happy with joy to find out their lack of life experiences make it hard to define themselves.


In ALL these situations there is some entitlement that forms because so much emphasis is placed upon what others view as normal occurance.

The virgin has sex and ends up in a relationship that doesn't work and cries that she or he gave away herself to someone who left her or him. The workaholic wants special treatment because she's a doctor or lawyer. The social outcast becomes mad and angry at his first real friend because duke has his own life and doesn't always wanna be around the cat. Etc.

I agree with this, alot of people think they are virgins because of looks/dikk size. Quit honestly,people that are virgins can blame their parents 100% for teaching them to be socially maladjusted individuals. Having parents with mental health disorders is detrimental to the developing brain of a young child.If you have a weak male role model/absent father it's easy to understand why a boy would have trouble getting it on with females.

 

[Music Fiend]

I agree with this, alot of people think they are virgins because of looks/dikk size. Quit honestly,people that are virgins can blame their parents 100% for teaching them to be socially maladjusted individuals. Having parents with mental health disorders is detrimental to the developing brain of a young child.If you have a weak male role model/absent father it's easy to understand why a boy would have trouble getting it on with females.

Exactly, perfect example. There are natural times for experiences. Once you take notice and a liking for the opposite sex, it's ur bodies way of signaling you are ready to experience.

Doesn't have to be sex. Could just be flirting, kissing, learning attraction and how to treat the opposite sex.

Same with being social. Once u reach a certain age your mind begins to question things u were taught. It's your minds way of telling the body that they are old enough to make their own choices and build their own lives.

Both situations the longer you wait to act on it the worse off you are I'll be when it comes time to getting where you want.

 

[Kobe24]

Exactly, perfect example. There are natural times for experiences. Once you take notice and a liking for the opposite sex, it's ur bodies way of signaling you are ready to experience.

Doesn't have to be sex. Could just be flirting, kissing, learning attraction and how to treat the opposite sex.

Same with being social. Once u reach a certain age your mind begins to question things u were taught. It's your minds way of telling the body that they are old enough to make their own choices and build their own lives.

Both situations the longer you wait to act on it the worse off you are I'll be when it comes time to getting where you want.

I lost my virginity really late at like 15, and it was all because how I was conditioned. My dad is a nerdy high IQ guy and I was brought up in a strict house,those kinds of things take play IMO if one develops to be an introvert or an extrovert. Many people to be blunt are born in a home with ignorant parents that haven't got the clue on how to raise a child.Most the dudes that had sex early had promiscuous dads as well.