The line that separates being confident, and a dikk. What is it?

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I'm an older student, and I work at the hospital as a mini-coop with other much younger 19 year old females. caught a few of them giving me looks. When I was 7 years younger in college I've never gotten this much attention. :patrice: I'm going to college again to make connections with the professors and find a good paying job, I couldn't care less about the other students.

At break, caught her struggling to cut a fruit. I told her to put her back into it, girls laughed, she laughed. smiled and said I wasn't her friend anymore and said i was nicer when was quiet. i thought we were just acquaintances, i didn't know i was in a friendzone. I sent her a book pdf because she asked me and I got her number by accident. :patrice: Did that make us friends?

I walked in the locker room (only one for all of us), and one of the girls just finished changing. I was like :scust: and went to get my things. she was like you could have knocked:usure:, and I told her I didn't care:francis:, and that I wasn't looking at either of them. and picked up my things. (Felt bad though, but I didn't apologize. I just won't do it again and will knock next time)

She text me asking me about some notes I told her to read the material and quit bothering me. She said please so I sent her the notes, and I was like first the apple and now your notes with the :francis: smiley and she said I'm nicer when I'm online and that's the only compliment I'm getting.

Other thing is when I talk pop culture shyt they don't know wtf I'm talking about. But they were born the year Biggie died so I'm not surprised.
 

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Just don't step on innocent brehs toes for some p*ssy. Keep doing you but should find ways to get at girls besides work. It sucks to admit but it's best to have a roster so you won't simp or catch feels with an L
 

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Good question. To toe the line... balancing yourself between being confident and a dikk...

a$$hole vs dikk.

a$$holes get how they're behaving and don't give a duck. dikk's are just oblivious to how they come across to people.

IMO
 

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You become an a$$hole once you start consciously hurting other people. Little jabs is fine but a confident person should be able to balance those jabs with moments of kindness. However morality is subjective, so do you.

Unless you trying to smash, fukk these college girls feelings. You know damn well they wouldn't give a fukk about your feelings if you didn't have something they lack. Your experience.
 

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You become an a$$hole once you start consciously hurting other people. Little jabs is fine but a confident person should be able to balance those jabs with moments of kindness. However morality is subjective, so do you.

Unless you trying to smash, fukk these college girls feelings. You know damn well they wouldn't give a fukk about your feelings if you didn't have something they lack. Your experience.
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