The moment you knew your relationship was over? (Coli edition)

[Kings County]

The moment I forgot my phone at her house, I didn't put a password on it because I lived by myself. I got all the way and realize I forgot it. I had a little bit of hope like maybe she didn't find it yet. I raced over there doing 20 over the speed limit the whole time like I was late for work or something
I get there I see my phone on the counter in the dining room/kitchen thing that apartments have.
She in her bed crying her eyes out

I say what's wrong?

She said you texting all these bytches the same thing you text me, saying you love these hoes.(pre-#HOH days back when I was young and selling dreams.)

The only thing the yung Me could think of is " I didn't mean it like that, I just be lying to these hoes but you the one I want."

Safe to say that ended the relationship and to make it awkward we worked together that's where I learned never to shyt to where you eat. Oh brehs when I tell you this bytch would show her ass at I couldn't say nothing because they might fire a nikka.

never leave your phone unlocked never

 

[WaveMolecules]

I cheated but never got caught so like I said I deserved it.


She even told "even if you didn't cheat, its as if you might as well have because while I can't prove it, I can't tell. . Woman's intuition boy.




Funny thing is that while we were together she would joke with me and say that I had ruined white men for her forever ( she is white ) saying that she couldn't only see herself with a Latin american guy.


She's dating a venezuenlan now

 

[Mr swag]

When she said she was "busy"

 

[Fukwatutalkinwatisaylaw]

I was with my ex for 7 years. Been through everything and then some.




After a couple of rocky months, we attend a BBQ together.





She's chatting with her home girls, I'm sitting with the guys.




She happens to be standing next to the cooler, so I asked her for a beer.




She coldly told me to get it myself.




At the time I blew it off as attitude.


But in retrospect, the venom in her tone and the ice grill she shot me should've woke me up.


She waited another month before leaving me.






Ancedote: I bought her a jersey in anticipation for the world cup. The day we were supposed to go to watch the game, was the day she moved out. When I came home at night, to an empty house for the first time in 4 years, the ONLY thing she left behind was the jersey I had bought her.


Still not over it.

That's some hurtful shyt damn bruh

 

[Fukwatutalkinwatisaylaw]

Last June, the day Colombia played greece in the world cup.


Gets worse though.

We had paid for a European trip in like February. Group of friends and us to Paris and Barcelona.

As the trip approached, we both agreed to be adults and friends and discuss the relationship when we got back.






The trip was amazing, as platonic as possible, and I had high hopes.


The week after we got back, we went to a wedding together.


I told her "that should be us up there" and nearly brought her to tears. We danced, laughed and had a great time. Everything was going well!




Then at the reception I got drunk and DANCED LIKE A BAFFON with several .... Ladies.... To her obvious disgust. I was too drunk to do realize what I was doing.



She was embarrassed. And although we've been friendly and hung out, its clear anything she had left for me died that weekend.

If u want her stop coming around and make her miss u

 

[Amy Traphouse]

He provoked me to put hands on him. That same day I ended the relationship.

He was a victim of insufficient daddying so it was bound to end anyway.

 

[squiddyB]

When she said she wouldn't give me blowjobs
we still had sex tho

 

[Fukwatutalkinwatisaylaw]

Met her in high school and knew I needed her right away, saw her walk into class and it was like slow motion. We started dating a few months later and the relationship was going on 6 yrs but a good portion of it was long distance cause we went to different colleges but we were able to make it work.

When I moved home she was still in school in DC and was getting really busy. Things started to get rocky during the last year and we were taking a break and giving ourselves space. The downward spiral starts here...one night she hangs out with a friend and her sister, later the sister falls asleep and it's just them too still awake, one thing leads to another and they kiss (the girl was a lesbian but had a bf as a front). Few days later we meet to go to the movies and she tells me what happened, although it wasn't a guy I was still little pissed/confused but I tried to play it off like "word she down for a threesome " She stopped talking to the chick after that and I thought things were getting back on track.
We went out to dinner for my birthday and she suggested we stop by this party, I wasn't about it but said alright. Well of course the chick shows up, they don't talk but the look on my girls face when she saw her said it all. To make things worse we get home and she wouldn't let me smash, on my damn birthday (knew it was over here).She goes ghost the next week after, and when she finally hits me back we meet up and she tells me she's been hanging with the chick and wants to break up they started dating and end up getting married a year later brehs

Smh dyke bytches

 

[BaggerofTea]

he mustve had that good d for you to stay that long

the things a women will put up with if you dikk her down properly

women will put with heaven and hell if the dikk game is right

A relationship comes down to fukking, if your making her nut and causing them toes to curl, gripping sheets etc. You got her locked down, even after the relationship is "over"

 

[lespaulultra3]

I knew it was over when she got comfortable enough to come take a shyt in the bathroom while I was already in there shaving

 

[Numpsay]

When she called to tell me she wouldn't be able to go to Vegas, the day we were supposed to leave, and I felt relieved. For some reason she insisted on dropping me to the airport and picking me up. Went and had the time of my life, didn't contact her at all, and knew on the flight back that the ride home with her was going to be the last time I ever talked to her. Crazy because I did so much for her, that I guess at some point it became a burden in a lot of ways so I was grateful to have her and her issues lifted off my shoulders.

 

[eufemism]

This entire thread

Got damn

 

[eufemism]

the thread tittle when you knew it was over

and i havent mentioned it 5 times, its other female posters who always bring it up

guess tat nikka who threw you into the wall messed up your readhign comprehension skills as well

savages

 

[KweenRoyalty]

I've had a couple I knew were over after a couple minutes being into the relationship

 

[Sassy]

Good god! some of y'all really had it bad, significant other poisoning your food and shyt. Getting thrown to the wall. leaving you for someone else. Some of this shyt sounds like it was on the ID channel.

But I guess I should contribute huh? It's only fair

I was in a relationship with an older man. How older? well..he was about as old as my stepdad...so pretty old. (don't worry! I was 18 at the time!...I guess it doesn't make it much better). We were also in a long distance relationship. We talked first, then started dating, blah blah, you know the whole fiasco. So we had a lot in common, shared some of one another's view, etc. Everything was sailing good. But after one month of being together...He became possessive, but it was the small things. So in my mind I was like "eh...not gonna worry about it" He did tell me he has OCD. So like Elsa, I just let it go.

But over the course of months, it wasn't small, it just got worse. I recall one time a friend (female) whom I haven't spoken to for a long while was trying to get in contact with me. So I told him I was going to catch up with her and call him back. That was then he accused me of the female being a guy and I was cheating on him. . I told him I have nothing to hide, but he kept insisting it and calling me out of my name. . So while he was in the middle of his rants, I hung up on him and went to catch up with my friend. In that moment., that was when I knew the relationship was over. It's one thing to think I'm cheating (I wasn't). But it's another to automatically jump to conclusions with no proof and to be disrespected in the progress. But of course, I tried to make it work. But no matter what I did, I still felt the same, if not, I felt worse and contempt for him. So a few more arguments and months later, I ended it with him.

Now that I think about it, I'm happy the relationship ended. To be honest, he had waaaaay too much baggage. He had 3 kids (one of them as old as me) was still married (found out while I came across his page on FB and confronted him about it) and he was fukking his roommate (female). But had the nerve to accuse me of shyt.

But that's one of my story, I have another one I might post, idk.