The moment you knew your relationship was over? (Coli edition)

[Lo-Co]

when i got a note with my name on it from a friend of hers talking about not being able to keep up a relationship.

i knew it was

ex was waiting in the bushes on some shyt. and started kissing me. i was like

yet the other ex that i got the note from was pissed at me for messing with my ex a day after she kicked me to the curb.

im like, "you clearly werent fukking with me so what choice did i have? you fukking bozo"
follow that up with her throwing subs at me. for a month. i didnt even say shyt really. but it was my fault for getting into that polar opposite relationship. she was more outgoing and i was still wet behind the ears.(god being autistic and dating was hard) i mean just because we were good friends didnt mean that shyt would last. hell she let me know the shyt was short term before we dated. and i STILL jumped in. i cant do nothing but laugh at my fukk ups

 

[Serious]

Met her in high school and knew I needed her right away, saw her walk into class and it was like slow motion. We started dating a few months later and the relationship was going on 6 yrs but a good portion of it was long distance cause we went to different colleges but we were able to make it work.

When I moved home she was still in school in DC and was getting really busy. Things started to get rocky during the last year and we were taking a break and giving ourselves space. The downward spiral starts here...one night she hangs out with a friend and her sister, later the sister falls asleep and it's just them too still awake, one thing leads to another and they kiss (the girl was a lesbian but had a bf as a front). Few days later we meet to go to the movies and she tells me what happened, although it wasn't a guy I was still little pissed/confused but I tried to play it off like "word she down for a threesome " She stopped talking to the chick after that and I thought things were getting back on track.
We went out to dinner for my birthday and she suggested we stop by this party, I wasn't about it but said alright. Well of course the chick shows up, they don't talk but the look on my girls face when she saw her said it all. To make things worse we get home and she wouldn't let me smash, on my damn birthday (knew it was over here).She goes ghost the next week after, and when she finally hits me back we meet up and she tells me she's been hanging with the chick and wants to break up they started dating and end up getting married a year later brehs

damn @ThiefyPoo you aint have to do the kid like that

 

[skeetsinternal]

She wanted to search my phone. I couldn't have that....

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/broke-up-with-wifey-because-she-wanted-to-search-my-phone.253361/

 

[twan83]

This happen with my first love

When she hit me with this
No words need to be said just listen

 

[Londilon]

When you notice a drop in something they used to always do for you and now they rarely do it. Their normal behavior changes to something you have never experienced before. That's when you throw them in the bushes.

 

[blockburna420]

That was you?

I remember seeing a post about that a few days ago




I mean at least she bought you a lunch box

If it were me I woulda made you lunch everyday cuz I love doin shyt like that for the men I love

It's my way of sayin "Thanks for treatin my p*ssy right"

.......

She got a nikka eating Chinese food and Lil Caesar. This bytch don't love me . Nah but she dealing with a lot 2 jobs and school , her contract on one job ends in a month so I'll be patient , our whole thing is fairly new

 

[Music Fiend]

had been busy lately, Scoop her, went bowling. I drop her at her crib and kiss her goodnight before walking her to her door. I head home (lived 15 minutes away) She left her phone in my car... Didn't even realize til i got a call from her house phone like right when i pulled into my place.

She tells me hey babe, I left my phone in my car. I find it behind the seat in the passenger while on the phone, and tell her I'll bring it over now. She just says, I woulnt want you to drive all the way back here so late, just turn the phone off and bring it to me tomorrow? So I say sure (at this point I'm suspicious.) So I bring the phone inside.

ding ding ding* , I look at the phone and whew... just a text I sent when i pulled into my area that I made it home safe. something told me to check her sent messages. Opened it up and there was a message to an unknown number asking "are you sure you didn't have anything?" while we were on our date

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Mufukkas gettin thrown into walls, poisoned, left for da same gendas n shyt...whole gotdayum thread is fulla .

 

[714562]

From various relationships:

When I realized that spending a weekend with her was more exhausting than doing work on the weekdays.

When I gave her a teddy bear for valentine's day and her response was "Oh. Thanks."

When she called me on the phone and asked me why a mutual acquaintance believed we were having sex when we weren't. (I was young )

 

[L68]

As a married breh it was when I dreaded coming home and having to deal with her. I never actually want to spend time with her and have more fun when she's not around.

I'm planning my exit strategy now

LMAO

 

[Medio]

When he'd answer his phone and leave the room.
When I asked who was that and he said, "why do you need to know?"

Once trust was gone it was over.

sounds like you were the one with the trust issues

 

[Fatboi1]

I called her when she said she was gonna be busy all day even though she was the phone talking with my cousin all afternoon.
Told her to forget my number.

 

[MikelArteta]

When you notice a drop something they used to always do for you and now they rarely do it. Their normal behavior changes to something you have never experienced before. That's when you throw them in the bushes.

yep
once youve been there before it becomes like a sixth sense, like hitting a ball and knowing its a home run, or taking a shot and you know that its in.

 

[Strawberry]

.......

She got a nikka eating Chinese food and Lil Caesar. This bytch don't love me . Nah but she dealing with a lot 2 jobs and school , her contract on one job ends in a month so I'll be patient , our whole thing is fairly new

Get out while you still can. You deserve better.

Mufukkas gettin thrown into walls, poisoned, left for da same gendas n shyt...whole gotdayum thread is fulla .

This world is a crazy place breh

 

[street heat]

when she got an abortion.......

it was rocky before then, but that definitely sealed it. im not against it or anything, and im glad im not attached to her in any way now, but deep down i lost some respect for her. maybe it was just me being upset she even let herself get pregnant in the first place (lied about being on BC)

i didnt want to leave her right after it was over, i thought that would be too cold.

another chick.... when she got a better job. she never really threw it in my face, but i just knew. she already hobnobbed with some of more upper crust socialites in the area and i figured she might try and upgrade. i was going to break up with her anyway as i planned to move to dallas the first chance i got, but it sucks she beat me to it. i feel i got the last laugh though