Good god! some of y'all really had it bad, significant other poisoning your food and shyt. Getting thrown to the wall. leaving you for someone else. Some of this shyt sounds like it was on the ID channel.
But I guess I should contribute huh? It's only fair
I was in a relationship with an older man. How older? well..he was about as old as my stepdad...so pretty old.

(don't worry! I was 18 at the time!

...I guess it doesn't make it much better). We were also in a long distance relationship. We talked first, then started dating, blah blah, you know the whole fiasco. So we had a lot in common, shared some of one another's view, etc. Everything was sailing good. But after one month of being together...
He became possessive, but it was the small things. So in my mind I was like "eh...not gonna worry about it

" He did tell me he has OCD. So like Elsa, I just let it go.
But over the course of months, it wasn't small, it just got worse. I recall one time a friend (female) whom I haven't spoken to for a long while was trying to get in contact with me. So I told him I was going to catch up with her and call him back. That was then he accused me of the female being a guy and
I was cheating on him.

. I told him I have nothing to hide, but he kept insisting it and calling me out of my name.

. So while he was in the middle of his rants, I hung up on him and went to catch up with my friend. In that moment., that was when I knew the relationship was over. It's one thing to think I'm cheating (I wasn't). But it's another to automatically jump to conclusions with no proof and to be disrespected in the progress. But of course, I tried to make it work. But no matter what I did, I still felt the same, if not, I felt worse and contempt for him. So a few more arguments and months later, I ended it with him.
Now that I think about it, I'm happy the relationship ended. To be honest, he had waaaaay too much baggage. He had 3 kids (one of them as old as me) was still married (found out while I came across his page on FB and confronted him about it) and he was fukking his roommate (female). But had the nerve to accuse me of shyt.
But that's one of my story, I have another one I might post, idk.