Whatever hand she uses is the side of the clit to work, bro. U gotta spread that shyt out and get the whole clit out in the open to get it right. Mfkas be rubbing chicks' shyt like they kneading dough, u only need one finger or thumb. One digit. U lay next to her and rub her jernt while she jerks u then u flip it on her and put ur head between her legs n do ur thing with her shyt spread n the tip of ur tongue pressed hard as fukk against her jernt flickin it. Every time she cums, u put ur thumb on the clit n work it while u put ur tongue in her p*ssy then lick n suck on her lips for a quick minute n it's back to business.
But personally I ain't with the secks toys, that's her thing, but if I'm in a relationship we fukking every night or every other night so the bytch should be looking forward like a mfka to it n saving it for me cuz she knows she bout to get wore out. And I'm not tryna sound like Supernegro either. I had to learn all this shyt the hard way just like the bros. U gotta listen to her body n not her mouth, cuz a chick'll tell u to do it one way but u flip it on her and she won't be able to ctrl herself. It's about ctrl n she loves for u to be in ctrl of her pleasure once she knows for a fact u can deliver like Domino's every damn time.