The older I get, the less I care what a woman does for a living

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I'm not against women going to school and getting advanced degrees.

I'm not against women working hard and earning a lot of money.

But to be honest, I don't really care how much money you make or how smart you are.

And I'm not trying to set women back and throw them in the kitchen on some misogyny from the 1950s type shyt.

But to keep it real, me...I am attracted to women who complement a man. Not ones who seem to try and compete with one.

Y'all can argue about gender roles and all that shyt but at the end of the day, ain't no woman gonna respect or want a man that she can replace with herself.

And ain't no man gonna respect or want a woman who doesn't seem to need him.

Frankly I think this is part of why so many relationships fail. Everybody trying to out-do one another and once you feel like you're on the same level, the only thing you gonna feel like you need from that other person is sex. And that shyt is too easy to get on the street (or even at work, lol) so it ain't gonna hold the relationship together.

Then again, I've been wrong before.
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:patrice:IDK, the older I get the more I care what she does for a living. Back in the day, I didnt care if a bytch worked at McDonalds or was an Investment Banker, long as the ass was fat and she had a cute face. Nowadays, I wouldnt even consider dating a woman who didnt have something going on for herself career wise because I already have two daughters and not looking to adopt/support a grown woman as well.
 
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Myself personally, I find intelligent, educated, confident, and successful women to be very attractive. A woman who might be a 5 or a 6 on the physical attractiveness scale hits the 9-10 range for me if she has those qualities. I wouldn't want to get involved with a woman that "needs" me per say. Financially speaking, I need someone competent who I can build with. Anything less would make her kind of a leach, or a child, like a dependent. I mean she has to be capable of bringing something to the table. I feel you though on the competition thing. Some women have a chip on their shoulder in both the professional world, and in their social life. They wonder why they're single or going through divorce number 2.
 
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Raul said:
I'm not against women going to school and getting advanced degrees.

I'm not against women working hard and earning a lot of money.

But to be honest, I don't really care how much money you make or how smart you are.

And I'm not trying to set women back and throw them in the kitchen on some misogyny from the 1950s type shyt.

But to keep it real, me...I am attracted to women who complement a man. Not ones who seem to try and compete with one.

Y'all can argue about gender roles and all that shyt but at the end of the day, ain't no woman gonna respect or want a man that she can replace with herself.

And ain't no man gonna respect or want a woman who doesn't seem to need him.

Frankly I think this is part of why so many relationships fail. Everybody trying to out-do one another and once you feel like you're on the same level, the only thing you gonna feel like you need from that other person is sex. And that shyt is too easy to get on the street (or even at work, lol) so it ain't gonna hold the relationship together.

Then again, I've been wrong before.
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Because you're getting desperate the older you get.

If you're rich, then I could understand why a little. You can afford to completely financially support another person. All of their wants and needs.

Raul said:
But to keep it real, me...I am attracted to women who complement a man. Not ones who seem to try and compete with one.

Y'all can argue about gender roles and all that shyt but at the end of the day, ain't no woman gonna respect or want a man that she can replace with herself.

And ain't no man gonna respect or want a woman who doesn't seem to need him.

Frankly I think this is part of why so many relationships fail. Everybody trying to out-do one another and once you feel like you're on the same level, the only thing you gonna feel like you need from that other person is sex. And that shyt is too easy to get on the street (or even at work, lol) so it ain't gonna hold the relationship together.

Then again, I've been wrong before.
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You are wrong again.

Sex, friendship, companionship, trust, love from their/your partner.

Just because a woman goes after what she wants and has enough money to buy everything she wants and needs does not mean that she's trying to compete with you. Where did you get that from? She has to take care of her self whether you're with her on not, before you too. Her money really has nothing to do with you. Doesn't make sense.


Raul said:
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Frankly I think this is part of why so many relationships fail. Everybody trying to out-do one another and once you feel like you're on the same level, the only thing you gonna feel like you need from that other person is sex. And that shyt is too easy to get on the street (or even at work, lol) so it ain't gonna hold the relationship together.

Then again, I've been wrong before.
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If you think that if both of you make the same amount, and all that you'll need from the other person is sex. How does her making less change that? All she'll need is sex and money, and all you'll need is sex since you already have the money. I don't get it.
 
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