The pain from losing a parent NEVER goes away

[jaydawg08]

I'm a 33 yr old man, with my dream career, $$, a beautiful girlfriend, and my life is everything I wanted when I was in my late teens and early 20's.... However, the pain from my father's death when I was 18 STILL to this day affects me.

I can go months without thinking of him, then suddenly I hear a song or something that reminds me of him and I end up almost in tears.

Hold your parents brahs. Tell them you love em. Because there's nothing I want more in this world than to see my pops one last time and have a conversation with him.... It's been 15 years and I still feel this way

 

[YvrzTrvly]

Sorry to hear that Breh I still have my parents but I appreciate the sentiment you are correct. I myself have had cancer so is have slightly different outlook on mortality than most but alas…

Maybe check out hitchens memoir also titled mortality

Edit: autocorrected to beth sorry again breh best wishes

 

[Supa cat]

Keep ya head up breh I’m sure he’d be more than proud of you

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I agree. Both my parents are dead. Life doesn’t feel the same. It takes something out of you, like a light. Or maybe that’s just me. I lost my dad about a year and a half ago. My mom in my mid twenties. I still cry all the time about them both. And my grandparents too. It’s just crazy to think about your childhood when they were there, and then they’re just not.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

I'm a 33 yr old man, with my dream career, $$, a beautiful girlfriend, and my life is everything I wanted when I was in my late teens and early 20's.... However, the pain from my father's death when I was 18 STILL to this day affects me.

I can go months without thinking of him, then suddenly I hear a song or something that reminds me of him and I end up almost in tears.

Hold your parents brahs. Tell them you love em. Because there's nothing I want more in this world than to see my pops one last time and have a conversation with him.... It's been 15 years and I still feel this way

It'll be 1 year come this July 3rd. shyt was rough on his Bday and okay for Fathers Day, but yeah you are right. I miss pops. Love ya folks brehs.

 

[James Gordon]

Death is hard on the livin

 

[mbewane]

Facts breh I lost my mom at 23 and had been living on a whole other continent since I was 15 so it felt like I didn't even spend that much time with her. Never really recovered emotionally and I'm pretty sure that's the main reason I don't fully commit/get attached to anything, especially relationships. I want to say at least you seem to have done well in life, that's already a whole lot.

 

[Soda Papi]

Me and my old man never had a strong relationship, but this song for some reason always got me thinking about him.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Muss my grandparents everyday and they've been gone for a minute...I can't imagine the day both my parents are gone

 

[TMBlue]

It will NEVER go away.. EVER.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Truth. I been an orphan since 8th grade. It’s rough but life is good. No complaints.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

I lost my best friend last year not a day goes I don’t think of her

 

[richaveli83]

I couldn't imagine life without my mama. The day she dies, I might commit that.

 

[Billie Jean]

I dread the day

And we need a hug reaction

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Same but I always tell myself that at least they’re no longer suffering and have to deal with the daily bullshyt here on earth. No more stress, no more bills, no more worries. They free.

But when I’m out shopping and I hear the store playing my mamas favorite song I just wanna