the REAL problem with dating single mothers...............................................

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It's not the father of the kids - Because most aren't crazy, and most are grateful for the weight off shoulders.
It's not because shes a hoodrat - most women aren't.
It's not because she is a horrible decision maker -- Most of the situations aren't that she was fukking a bunch of dudes and one knocked her up. Most of the time She was in a relationship that didn't work out.
It's not because you have to play father- you don't have to unless u fall in love and get married... and realistically most single mother can hold shyt down w o you.
It's not because they are 'used' goods - if that's the case than most women are used goods - NTM p*ssy elasticity isn't diminished by childbirth - Good Genetics and maintenance is what a good coochie is made of.

I just had an epiphany. :ohhh: idk if this is a good thread to make - but i just wanted to put my discoveries out there.
Ladies nearly always can never give you their full love - if they've already given everything + a baby to another man. You might be missing out on some 100% shyt with another woman - by choosing a single mom.



I came to this conclusion because I just had a lunch date with my sons mother. She is intelligent and beautiful and a professional woman with a home and a rental property. Body is banging and seems like damn near a perfect woman. So many men try to date her - but shes been rejecting for nearly 2.5 years because she feels that her focus should be on career and her son. She finally met a guy on her level. He is attractive, smart, athletic, had madd hoes but he stopped talking to hoes because he feels that he found the perfect women. Took him 6 Months but he's actually gotten pass the fact that she has a kid. He doesn't have to see the kid + the woman has her own money - actually make 10K more than him. She is healthy and a dietitian..... And is pro black. THIS nikka IS THINKING JACKPOT. Plus despite his efforts she will not give him any p*ssy. He thought about backing off.... but he's pushing 30 so hes thinking.. She might be wify type, She actually values her own mind and body...

Issue is......... When I just met this young lady today, she tells me that she still loves me, would still chose me, thinks about inviting me over for sex (even after feeding this nikka that mind body soul bullshyt), etc....

A single mother - has lingering mental damage. This is the reason you can't fukk with them. :whew:
 

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I've been dating a single mother for almost 2 months now

she's one of the best girlfriends I've ever had :whew: a relationship is what you both put into it regardless
My problem is..

I feel sorry for the dude.

They have went on dates, have a great relationship. She tells me they talk every night and vibe great as fukk. :mindblown:


But she'd still have these feeling for another man. :dahell: I don't think I could handle that. Not after I'm putting in all that work and even deading all my hoes:rudy:
 

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My problem is..

I feel sorry for the dude.

They have went on dates, have a great relationship. She tells me they talk every night and vibe great as fukk. :mindblown:


But she'd still have these feeling for another man. :dahell: I don't think I could handle that. Not after I'm putting in all that work and even deading all my hoes:rudy:

a lot of single mothers actually can't stand their baby daddies and dread being around them at all much less fukking them. Insecurity about that and in general ruins relationships baby mama/daddy drama included or not
 

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so OP, if she has all that goin on for her, why aren't you with her??? especially since ya'll seem to be cordial and she is willing to throw you the puss??? :leon:
 

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so OP, if she has all that goin on for her, why aren't you with her??? especially since ya'll seem to be cordial and she is willing to throw you the puss??? :leon:
People in real life ask me this all the time. This chick is like an optical illusion, IMO. Now every time I see her I'm like "damn!!" but I know its a mirage.

i try to tell people she wasn't like this in her late teens early 20's. Now in her mid 20's shes different.
 

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People in real life ask me this all the time. This chick is like an optical illusion, IMO. Now every time I see her I'm like "damn!!" but I know its a mirage.

i try to tell people she wasn't like this in her late teens early 20's. Now in her mid 20's shes different.

u should give it a second chance then. she probably changed for the better, and you can be with your kid full time. sounds like :win: on all levels.
 

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Dating single mothers is a bad idea for many reasons....
What's stated in the OP is stupid tho...that's the same as saying your wife won't love you the same once yall have a kid.
Your mom won't love you the same once she has another kid
 

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u should give it a second chance then. she probably changed for the better, and you can be with your kid full time. sounds like :win: on all levels.
we split kid time 50/50.

And it's tempting... but i have a girl now. If i smashed a random side chick that would be bad but not the worst act in history.
if i smashed bm who is madd sexy and conscious.. that's like cheating and falling into a trap.
 
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