The women out here "interviewing" men will probably never find one

[agnosticlady]

Alot of these broads spent most of their adult lives with fukk nikkas and now they approaching time bomb status they no longer feel like being with someone they can just vibe to...they create these asinine criteria in search of the perfect man that can retroactively undo there "troubled" past.

The issue with messing with males like that is that those men won't tell you the truth. Messing around with fukk boys will really screw you over because those are males who just want to get in your pants. They will tell you anything. Some women are overdosed on attention that they do not care.All the fukk boys and simps require is their presence. Then they get older and their looks start to fade. The men of worth require more than just looks. They didn't develop any other good qualities.

 

[Jhoon]

The issue with messing with males like that is that those men won't tell you the truth. Messing around with fukk boys will really screw you over because those are males who just want to get in your pants. They will tell you anything. Some women are overdosed on attention that they do not care.All the fukk boys and simps require is their presence. Then they get older and their looks start to fade. The men of worth require more than just looks. They didn't develop any other good qualities.

I believe it was last week I read a story reporting that kids are having sex less. Within a decade, there will be stories that the higher your educational needs the lower your lobido will sink.

I hate to sound like an alarmist, but it wouldn't surprise me if this country ends up like Japan and their sex less adults.

 

[jadillac]

What a weird thread. If she doesn't ask questions, she's liable to be made a fool at a later date. May as well get it over with. If you're a tad squeamish with answering questions, that says alot about your mentality.

You can always tell the losers by their inability to answer a direct question. If I was out here dating, not only would I ask these questions, but I would actively go out and get the answers prior to getting a response. There are far too many people out here pretending it's normal to be a scumbag.

there's a difference between a normal 1st date or coversation, and an interrogation with no personality involved..

 

[DarkHorse23]

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Such a page turner

 

[agnosticlady]

What a weird thread. If she doesn't ask questions, she's liable to be made a fool at a later date. May as well get it over with. If you're a tad squeamish with answering questions, that says alot about your mentality.

You can always tell the losers by their inability to answer a direct question. If I was out here dating, not only would I ask these questions, but I would actively go out and get the answers prior to getting a response. There are far too many people out here pretending it's normal to be a scumbag.

One has to be tactful and considerate. You should be peeling the onion and not stabbing it to death. A genuine interest in the conversation along with a good personality can lead to the person opening up instead of just "What do you do?", "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?"

 

[thirdeye]

See people don't know how to have a natural convo, people forget you can find out things without saying it so explicitly but their loss.

 

[M'gann]

Conversation has to flow naturally or else it's just awkward AF with these interview questions .

 

[agnosticlady]

See people don't know how to have a natural convo, people forget you can find out things without saying it so explicitly but their loss.

Real talk, there are many things I have found out without directly asking militant like questions.

 

[KingMalik]

Marriage is a business. Always has been. Only poor people think marriage is for love.

 

[Jhoon]

there's a difference between a normal 1st date or coversation, and an interrogation with no personality involved..

If time is money, you can't mince words talking to a financial advisor. If you're turned off by the questions, maybe I shouldn't park my money(time) with you.

 

[Jhoon]

Marriage is a business. Always has been. Only poor people think marriage is for love.

There are far too many people who want sparks. Sparks? What are you an arsonist?

Instead of being on the same page, folks want the words to convey too many emotions.

 

[thirdeye]

Real talk, there are many things I have found out without directly asking militant like questions.

Yup. I swear if people were just a lil more observant, they would be winning at convos. What really helped me was: 1) working in advertising and 2) How To Win Friends and Influence People (I swear by that book).

 

[Jhoon]

there's a difference between a normal 1st date or coversation, and an interrogation with no personality involved..

You should interrogate everyone and everything that comes into your life.

 

[DAlbert]

man if im on a date and I try to make a conversation on simplified cool "intellectual" shyt and it turns her off then so fukking be it

we wouldn't be on a date if I was just trying to smash

was on a date last month bish was asking me questions about how many partners I had