I'm a DJ and honestly I think most of the people on the nightlife scene/circle/business are straight up losers......At some point you should have a stable enough relationship or other things to do to not want to go to the club every week and it's obvious that the people I see out don't have that. I see 35, 40 and 50 year old regulars on the scene and it completley blows my mind because I know how hard my mom worked as a teacher, raising me, going to church, feeding the homeless....She didn't have time to go to a fukking club on a Wednesday night.
I've been booked to DJ clubs on Christmas and Thanksgiving and it's obvious how sad of a life people live because the club is never really crazy on Christmas/Thanksgiving, but it's just enough to keep the club open....