because a 21 year old chick will be impressed by the fact that man has his own place, a decent whip, and more than likely more flexible money to spend on her
but real talk I would say 80% of older men who date chicks who are 18-23 do so because they know they can get away with a lot more than with a chick their own age, and the younger chick will follow their lead and are more impressible
every damn chick ive known who was in their early 20s and dated a guy in their 30s have almost the same exact story, cheated on and usually as the chick got older and wiser and was less likely to put up with the man's stuff the relationship would then end
but real talk I would say 80% of older men who date chicks who are 18-23 do so because they know they can get away with a lot more than with a chick their own age, and the younger chick will follow their lead and are more impressible
every damn chick ive known who was in their early 20s and dated a guy in their 30s have almost the same exact story, cheated on and usually as the chick got older and wiser and was less likely to put up with the man's stuff the relationship would then end