I just feel like, how scarred are you really if a suburban house makes all your sorrows go away?
It don't make shyt go away. The problem is that she takes an L either way. You yourself talking about how suspicious you are of her.
Door #1: He signs the agreement, is halfway admitting guilt in both your eyes, you have $400,000, and you do your best to get on with your life. You're still a rape survivor and he's still free.
Door #2: You fight it in court, it drags on for months or years while millions of people assume you must be, "That slut who had sex with that guy and is now trying to be a golddigger." His well-paid lawyers dig up every mistake you've ever made in your life and broadcast it to the world, trying to make you look like a whore and a liar in any way they can. In a BEST case scenario, the whole world knows that you were raped, which is still humiliating for many people, and in a worst case scenario they assume you wanted it and are now a greedy liar trying to destroy a man's life. You probably lose friends, look a lot different in many of their eyes, your boyfriend is insecure as hell about it because he knows you a rape victim. In the end, you probably lose the case cause his lawyers are way better than yours. At least you put him on blast in public and some people will believe you, his reputation is tarnished, but so is yours. He'll have the opportunity to rehabilitate his image, you never will. You'll always be "that girl who..." You're still a rape survivor and he's still free.
I want every single rape victim to go to court. But I ain't judging them when they don't. We went through this with our foster daughter (she was fighting a rape case in court when she came to us), and it's just hell to have that trial go on, and on, and on, not knowing when you'll ever get your life back. She's just wanted to give up numerous times.
Yes it is
No it's not, and there's crazy people like him in other sports he wasn't some reality star simply famous for his persona he was the baddest man on the planet because of boxing.
It's easy to see why someone without a support system would just take the money and try to never think about it or speak on it ever again.