Thinking about marriage

KeysT

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I need help brehs... I already know I probably share that girl and all that.
But for the first time I could actually see myself with this chick for the rest of my life.:to:. A part of me thinks im too young (22) but another part of me thinks that I will be fine. I have been with her for over a year now. We are in a long distance relationship not by choice but we see each other often. She already met the fam, I've already met hers.
For all you married folk, how did you know you were ready?
 
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I need help brehs... I already know I probably share that girl and all that.
But for the first time I could actually see myself with this chick for the rest of my life.:to:. A part of me thinks im too young (22) but another part of me thinks that I will be fine. I have been with her for over a year now. We are in a long distance relationship not by choice but we see each other often. She already met the fam, I've already met hers.
For all you married folk, how did you know you were ready?



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Are you in love with this girl or in love with the concept of being married and having a woman to claim?
 

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I need help brehs... I already know I probably share that girl and all that.
But for the first time I could actually see myself with this chick for the rest of my life.:to:. A part of me thinks im too young (22) but another part of me thinks that I will be fine. I have been with her for over a year now. We are in a long distance relationship not by choice but we see each other often. She already met the fam, I've already met hers.
For all you married folk, how did you know you were ready?

:heh: you share that girl
 

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Live with her first

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I've lived with her for about seven months last year before we got seperated. no problems.

Are you in love with this girl or in love with the concept of being married and having a woman to claim?

Everyones definition of love is diffeerent but I would say so. I mean I would do anything for her ...she would do anything for me. Think about her all the time...all that jazz..
 

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I honestly suggest you two read this book

1001 Questions to Ask Before You Get Married

It may seem corny as hell, but I've heard nothing but good things from everyone I know that's taken the time to read it.

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That Quick Lil Gems thread got your name on it, bruv..

Give it a gander..

Been through it a couple times. A lot of stuff I can't relate to though as far as women cheating and stuff like that. I dont know whether I've been lucky or what but all the girls I have messed with have been good girls for the most part. Usually it was me who messed up. I'll def. shoot through the whole thread again to catch anything I've missed.
 

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Been through it a couple times. A lot of stuff I can't relate to though as far as women cheating and stuff like that. I dont know whether I've been lucky or what but all the girls I have messed with have been good girls for the most part. Usually it was me who messed up. I'll def. shoot through the whole thread again to catch anything I've missed.

:why: breh, you gotta get cheated on first before you even THINK about getting married. getting cheated on gives you a whole different kind of perspective on relationships and how to deal with women. That entire "gems" thread is constructed by nikkaz who got cheated on by their women. if you haven't experienced that yet, you are not ready. cause if your wife cheats on you and it's your first time dealing with cheating, you will jump off of a building or exterminate her and her family. shyt is painful, b. it's like police officers getting sprayed with pepper spray in the eyes so they can know what it feels like. but afterwards, they are prepared for a direct spray because they already know what it feels like. can't go into a long term relationship all green and shyt.....:snoop:
 

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I know I'm ready because I am have the stuff in place to become stable enough in my life to take on another person.

I'm not going for the bottom of the barrel because I want a person who will provide. I don't want to be a sugar daddy to no one and then them leaving and taking half. I want to go in with what I have to offer and see what they bring to the table.

I want someone to hold it down. I'm not going to rush into anything. You're young, I'm 24 and it took a couple L's to learn to know what I have to have in order to even consider getting married.
 
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