I think they’ve been mentioned before. You know none of us ladies are down with this.

The contradictions in this post are almost comical. Juelzing at its finest.She's legal, I'd definitely smash. Very scary to wife her, but it's very scary to wife any American woman nowadays.
I'm 44, I got a 20 year old hassling me to come over right now. She's been hassling me since Friday.
Sad to say, but a lot of young women especially the ones that grew up without a father figure, love the structure, consistency and competence of an older man. A lot of them have never been around a solid, stable man and it feels good to them. Sometimes for a split second I almost feel bad, like I'm taking advantage of these young girls. A second is fast. We have to enjoy life for what it is. We're really doing each other a favor, i'm having great time, she's learning some valuable traits in a man to look for in the future. No victims here.
A lot of women in their 30s and 40s are washed, ruining and jaded. Until I find one worth wife, I'm just having fun. A lot 20 years olds are more fun that 30+ in my experience.
And we need to stop looking at young women as some mindless, innocent child. Some of these girls are very conning, calculated and can reek havoc. And they all aren't boring and non intellectual

Is the age gap that you should be inquiring about or the dynamic? Make each of them 10 or 20 years old and the age gap is the same but the dynamic is different. The greater problem is that people should be commenting on the dynamic as opposed to the age gap since focus on the dynamic allows for the necessary nuance these issues deserve. And the dynamic here is very, very disturbing.I think they’ve been mentioned before. You know none of us ladies are down with this.
But if he was a breh would you be cool with this age gap?
Or if he were a breh with a Becky (actually an old breh with a white girl has been posted here before…), would that be ok?
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nikka said a bunch of shyt to give himself an alibi for every angle.The contradictions in this post are almost comical. Juelzing at its finest.![]()

Basically rationalizing what he morally feels is wrong.nikka said a bunch of shyt to give himself an alibi for every angle.![]()

A 19YO girl is in an age gap relationship/marriage.Is the age gap that you should be inquiring about or the dynamic? Make each of them 10 or 20 years old and the age gap is the same but the dynamic is different. The greater problem is that people should be commenting on the dynamic as opposed to the age gap since focus on the dynamic allows for the necessary nuance these issues deserve. And the dynamic here is very, very disturbing.![]()
My point exactly. Again, it is the dynamic and not the age gap itself. This is why I said the dynamic is important. Why? When you make it about the age gap, you end up applying a one-size fits all approach to the issue, which is erroneous because that ignores other aspects, such as the racial component in this whole discussion. The race dynamic cannot be ignored. The race and age dynamic make this even more of an issue. This is a 19 yo black woman with a 40+ yo white man. She is in danger.A 19YO girl is in an age gap relationship/marriage.
So, YES, the age gap is what is being commented on.
If a 19YO girl started dating the 21-22YO older brother of her friend, no one would be talking about this.
A 19YO in an age gap relationship is cause for concern.
If she were a 30yo woman with a man 30 yrs older than her no one would give a damn.
No he ain’tTF happened, breh? Youre better than this![]()
