This Right Here Is Why Women Ain’t Bothered By Being Alone

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Biggest thing that people cite in happiness studies is strong personal relationships. Women wanna be in relationships, but they get some satisfaction in platonic friendships too.

Before you jump to conclusions about women needing a man, think about how fukked up dude's platonic relationships are as we get older. We get weird and isolated. Build model train sets. Collect world War 2 memorabilia. Some of us starting drinking or getting high solo. Post on The Coli. That ain't really female tendencies. Even if they hate some of the bytches at these get togethers, the simple interpersonal interaction stops them from jumping out the window figuratively and literally like men do.

Even gym bros, as a gym bro...some of us get a little too dorky with how far we measure and monitor shyt.
 
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It's more accepted for women to be vulnerable than men.

Women are always going to feel more connected "to the village" as a result.

They give birth, they aren't as physically threatening or imposing as men, and people are more welcoming to women. And women's self-esteem or social status doesn't depend on how great or successful they are like it does for men.

So it's easy to see why women can handle loneliness better than men
 
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in short: women tend to be social and men tend to be loners

this is not new or news....

this is why the church is filled with old single women....bridge groups...bingo groups....casino groups are largely made up of older single women....

and then take into account the family dynamic...a single grandma will have the kids and grandkids constantly around her when she's not in one of her dozen are so groups....

while grand pops is sitting in a house somewhere drinking or watching tv....alone
 

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It's more accepted for women to be vulnerable than men.

Women are always going to feel more connected "to the village" as a result.

They give birth, they aren't as physically threatening or imposing as men, and people are more welcoming to women. And women's self-esteem or social status doesn't depend on how great or successful they are like it does for men.

So it's easy to see why women can handle loneliness better than men

That's a cop out

a lot of ya'll suck ass as friends, compadres , cousins and the whole nine

mfers will hit a mfer up and be like "I'm busy" and all they doing is sitting on they ass playing video games or watching bullshyt on youtube with a thumb up there bussy.

mfers will skip out on a cousins graduation, a wedding, funerals, reunions etc out of selfishness and wonder why every day they feel like they looking into the abyss.

That playstation ain't going nowhere.

Biggest thing that people cite in happiness studies is strong personal relationships. Women wanna be in relationships, but they get some satisfaction in platonic friendships too.

Before you jump to conclusions about women needing a man, think about how fukked up dude's platonic relationships are as we get older. We get weird and isolated. Build model train sets. Collect world War 2 memorabilia. Some of us starting drinking or getting high solo. That ain't really female tendencies. Even if they hate some of the bytches at these get togethers, the simple interpersonal interaction stops them from jumping out the window figuratively and literally like men do.

Even gym bros, as a gym bro...some of us get a little too dorky with how far we measure and monitor shyt.

Exactly.
 

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What's wrong with you

As for the rest of that shyt you said, it's not a cop out. It makes it harder to start and maintain friendships because those things add mental barriers

It actually doesn't, but I forgot men of your generation lean on them excuses until they cry for help
 
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just when i thought i would just work and chill as usual smh.

let me accept this happy hour and pool party invitations lol

oh, this life i lead 😌
 

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Woman alone = No exclusive companion. She is hanging out. She is getting love. She is getting dikk.

Man alone = alone

Men and women are socialized differently. Women tend to have more opportunities to socialize and have an easier time being accepted. We can judge dudes all day but nobody with skills and opportunity is gonna chose to be alone.
 
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also people forget "alone" and "lonely" are two different things, or is it that they are projecting.

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Women are better at maintaining friendships. Men wouldn't be in such dire straits if we had a strong and reliable social structure. Society conditioned us to have a mindset of every man for himself so it really isn't our fault. But it isn't healthy or good for our mental wellbeing. Plus it really isn't natural. This is why men are more prone to developing destructive and toxic mindsets and ways of thinking.
 
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