This Right Here Is Why Women Ain’t Bothered By Being Alone

[NZA]

older men need more memberships, clubs, associations, etc.

there has to be an agenda

 

[UWasntThere]

Women are better at maintaining friendships. Men wouldn't be in such dire straits if we had a strong and reliable social structure. Society conditioned us to have a mindset of every man for himself so it really isn't our fault. But it isn't healthy or good for our mental wellbeing. Plus it really isn't natural. This is why men are more prone to developing destructive and toxic mindsets and ways of thinking.

I don't know about this. Women have more friends but men are more loyal to the few that they have.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Biggest thing that people cite in happiness studies is strong personal relationships. Women wanna be in relationships, but they get some satisfaction in platonic friendships too.

Before you jump to conclusions about women needing a man, think about how fukked up dude's platonic relationships are as we get older. We get weird and isolated. Build model train sets. Collect world War 2 memorabilia. Some of us starting drinking or getting high solo. Post on The Coli. That ain't really female tendencies. Even if they hate some of the bytches at these get togethers, the simple interpersonal interaction stops them from jumping out the window figuratively and literally like men do.

Even gym bros, as a gym bro...some of us get a little too dorky with how far we measure and monitor shyt.

Who TF you know doing this?

 

[Vandelay]

Who TF you know doing this?

I know we assume we're all talking about black folk, but this was an older 50 something white coworker I had about 12-13 years ago.

On god, one of the weirdest circumstances I ever been in. Dude pretty seemingly gave up on life. I can give the full story another time, but dude had a basement full of world war 2 shyt. Not a small basement either, this was the Madame Toussaintwhatever of WW2 basements. That's all dude had. Wife left him. Kids were grown. Etc etc...

 

[the elastic]

If they are going out and linking up with people, that's not alone.

Being single doesn't automatically make you lonely.


What we doing here?

 

[RickyDiBiase]

I know we assume we're all talking about black folk, but this was an older 50 something white coworker I had about 12-13 years ago.

On god, one of the weirdest circumstances I ever been in. Dude pretty seemingly gave up on life. I can give the full story another time, but dude had a basement full of world war 2 shyt. Not a small basement either, this was the Madame Toussaintwhatever of WW2 basements. That's all dude had. Wife left him. Kids were grown. Etc etc...

I bet there was a flag or two he had that he made sure to hide

 

[LiveFromLondon]

I don't know about this. Women have more friends but men are more loyal to the few that they have.

bytches be having a new best friend every few months

 

[Tair]

I do think good friendships can help lead men into having more fulfilled lives instead of getting wrapped up in a bunch of nonsense. I remember a study/article showing young men without friends were likely to join fringe groups like white supremacist gangs, red pilling, etc...

And the same thing happens to lonely women. Just look at @Still Benefited guide, Nature Boy. Those women were definitely lonely prior to joining his cult.

 

[Da_Eggman]

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Woman alone = No exclusive companion. She is hanging out. She is getting love. She is getting dikk.

Man alone = alone

Men and women are socialized differently. Women tend to have more opportunities to socialize and have an easier time being accepted. We can judge dudes all day but nobody with skills and opportunity is gonna chose to be alone.

Agreed. I think this is the key takeaway.

When a woman tells me she’s “lonely” she’s not truly alone. More than likely she’s getting all her needs met it’s just not happening HER way that she wants. Woman have legions of simps ready to offer pipe and companionship without her putting in effort. Plus extensive friend groups. Basically women just exist and the world bends to them.

The average man being alone means legitimately alone. Like no p*ssy, limited friends. Just working, maybe gym, and video games/tv watching. Most men don’t have women on tap. Or friends that actually wanna do something productive. A man has to put in consistent work to not be lonely and as you get older the desire to do that lessens.

Water is wet.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

bytches be having a new best friend every few months

Women live in the moment. That’s why things can be going great and then next thing you know she’s ice cold. They hate to admit it but they’re driven by feelings and vibes. Something can be toxic for them and they’ll still dive head first into the situation. Not all women but a lot are like that.