I have 3 requirements for me to date someone: must be physical, mentally and spiritually attractive. Everytime I forget to assess one of the three, the relationship doesn't last long. After my last breakup I realized I completely forgot about the spiritual part cause I loved everything else about her. I was, probably still heartbtroken when it didn't work out but I feel better knowing where I fukked up. I should've gotten to know her better but like that saying goes, fools rush in.