Tired of Preparing these Chicks for the Next Dude

[Cap. Scarlet]

I can't figure this out. Thought women wanted the educated, handsome brotha with his priorities in order. Pulling women has never been an issue for me. It's just that this year, I have been used for my time, positive energy, and attention. Nothing substantial has really come from it. What do women want out here?

 

[Vandelay]

It's your energy.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Choose better

 

[Shadow King]

What type of dudes are "the next man"?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Start vetting people better before you invest

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

What type of dudes are "the next man"?

I have no idea but obviously not me.

 

[Cap. Scarlet]

It's your energy.

What do you mean?

 

[SithLawd]

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

And stop taking dating so seriously. Enjoy yourself.

 

[BezO]

I can't figure this out. Thought women wanted the educated, handsome brotha with his priorities in order. Pulling women has never been an issue for me. It's just that this year, I have been used for my time, positive energy, and attention. Nothing substantial has really come from it. What do women want out here?

They want that energy, but are likely not prepared for whatever you're prepared for.

Start vetting people better before you invest

This! Your selection process is lackin' if this is a consistent issue. If you're actually lookin' for a partner, screen for those qualities you want.

 

[saturn7]

Sadly you have to be a prick. Show them you have plans and priorities besides them.

 

[goatmane]

How old are u?

 

[Vandelay]

What do you mean?

A lot of women want to come along for the ride. They don't actually want to be "the ride".

You have to learn which women this applies to.

 

[mortuus est]

I can't figure this out. Thought women wanted

ohhhhh noooo cap, i wonder why

 

[BezO]

Sadly you have to be a prick. Show them you have plans and priorities besides them.

Pickin' a partner is not the time for games. Of course have plans aside from a relationship. And yeah, she may not be top priority at the beginnin'. But bein' an ass & artificially limitin' your time with her are games that will trigger negativity from an intelligent woman. That's shyt you pull on low level pieces of ass you want to keep around for an extended period.