To all the Fathers... get in here!

[ProfessionallyTrill]

How did it feel when you were first told that you were expecting a lil one and how old were you ?

I need stories Brehs. I'm 26 goin on 27 and my girl is late. Will I still be able to hit the club? Will a child drain my funds? My girl is a Registered Nurse and I'm a financial analyst. We get along great I'm just going through a mix of emotions cuz my parents were 30 and 31.

Share brehs

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

gotta plan for a kid

dont let it happen

if it happens and yall, wanna have one, do the best for the child.

 

[Wesley Pipes quotes]

Are you married?

Will you still be able to hit the club?

If your lady pregnant you going to cause some problems hittin the club while she at home getting fat. Think about it breh.

Will a child drain your funds?

Not if your married. If you are married it's an investment of money and time. The payoff is a family.

If you are a baby daddy, that kid becomes a burden. Your child support becomes a monthly "bill" and reminder that you fcked up. The time spent? Those weekends your boys got tickets to the game and you can't go because it's "your weekend", you going to hate yourself.

 

[Tha Boi Wonder]

I was 19... Wasn't expecting it. Was with the girl for a year, I freaked out and slept with like 15 girls before she (my daughter) was born...

I feel bad that I did that to my BM.. But thank god we both realized we just weren't happy , she did me dirty when the baby was like 9 months..

But we switch days every 4 days. I get my daughter so much and if you are happy with your woman then that is even better . You'll be fine breh, it does coast money tho... I couldn't have another one now. I've had a few scares with my recent girlfriend of 2 years .

Personally I'd rather spend a night in with my little girl than go out , I'm a big homebody now that I'm a dad tho

 

[Dirk Diggler]

How did it feel when you were first told that you were expecting a lil one and old were you ?

I was happy about it she was planned so I was also anticipating the news

I need stories Brehs. I'm 26 goin on 27 and my girl is late. Will I still be able to hit the club?

You will be able to but in moderation you cant be dropping 100+ a weekend when you got a mouth to feed.

Will a child drain my funds? My girl is a Registered Nurse and I'm a financial analyst. We get along great I'm just going through a mix of emotions cuz my parents were 30 and 31.

Share brehs

Yes the child will drain your funds start preparing now LOL. Daycare, pampers, clothes and all that shyt aint no joke. I was 32 when my daughter was born we have a son to be born in January both her and I are Software Engineers so we good

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Good lookin out. She's great and she's about to make BANK with her job.

 

[Family Man]

How did it feel when you were first told that you were expecting a lil one and old were you ?

I need stories Brehs. I'm 26 goin on 27 and my girl is late. Will I still be able to hit the club? Will a child drain my funds? My girl is a Registered Nurse and I'm a financial analyst. We get along great I'm just going through a mix of emotions cuz my parents were 30 and 31.

Share brehs

I got the news about three months ago. I was in a daze for about two weeks. Then I started telling everybody that would listen. My first child is due March 2013. I got to hear its heartbeat a couple of weeks ago on my birthday.

Also, if you talking about clubbing and shyt then your priorities are out of line.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

probably one of the most humblest and emotional things I've ever experienced. Only thing I can say, don't look at having a child as a burden. You'll find time to do some things, but your time will be fully invested towards them. Even with some flaws, my number #1 priority are my children period.

 

[illadope]

Of course you can still go to the club, unless ya moms is dead youll always have a baby sitter

 

[Dirk Diggler]

probably one of the most humblest and emotional things I've ever experienced. Only thing I can say, don't look at having a child as a burden. You'll find time to do some things, but your time will be fully invested towards them. Even with some flaws, my number #1 priority are my children period.

+1 this when your child gets here if you are doing the right thing the club will be the last thing on your mind

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

I was 23 years old fresh outta college I had just landed my first gig. Everything happened soo fast. I was prepared though begin saving and try to keep a good relationship with the mother and her family. Like it or not her family and your family becomes one through your kid. Like the previous poster said if you're handling your biz the club won't seem all that imporatant its about your lil one now. And if you have a daughter like I do man that will really change your perspective on how you view women and life in general. Good luck

 

[Frump]

Best feeling in the world breh its the first time u see somebody you care more about then yourself and would die for

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Good shyt

to the one star

 

[beenz]

man, my first time, I was 25, broke, no job, and not married. and I did NOT want any parts of a kid, and she wasn't goin for that abortion tip. It ended up working out, but I was struggling the first couple years working two shytty jobs just to

now i'm 34, got a decent job and married 8 years and she's 9.

 

[twan83]

How did it feel when you were first told that you were expecting a lil one and how old were you ?

I need stories Brehs. I'm 26 goin on 27 and my girl is late. Will I still be able to hit the club? Will a child drain my funds? My girl is a Registered Nurse and I'm a financial analyst. We get along great I'm just going through a mix of emotions cuz my parents were 30 and 31.

Share brehs

I was 22 when i was expecting my first child which was a boy. I truly believe having kids doesnt drain ur funds as bad as people make it seem. You just gotta know how to budget and not buy every damn thing u see either.

Will u still be able to hit club up yes but i dont see why would u imo.

I have 4 kids fam. and i enjoy the shyt outta fatherhood. My newest child was born on 27 aug of this yr.

Aint nothing better and i mean this nothing better than being a FATHER to me. its a privilege and honor to be a father and most of all a RESPONSIBILITY.

You can still enjoy life u just gotta put that KID first