I was 23 years old fresh outta college I had just landed my first gig. Everything happened soo fast. I was prepared though begin saving and try to keep a good relationship with the mother and her family. Like it or not her family and your family becomes one through your kid. Like the previous poster said if you're handling your biz the club won't seem all that imporatant its about your lil one now. And if you have a daughter like I do man that will really change your perspective on how you view women and life in general. Good luck