To anybody feeling down about not having anyone for Valentine's Day, the grass isn't always greenr.

[Hope]

I haven't been in a relationship in 6 months. I have not had sex in over 6 months as well, and this weekend people were showing up at my apartment and bringing up old shyt that was nothing but an illusion. I've moved on and not going back. My physical and emotional boundaries have been crossed for too many years, from all kinds of people. There were several people invading my abstinence this month.

Sex and relationships are overrated and is a lot of drama. Some people are sick, stalkers, and will kill you.

It's extremely complicated and confusing, so I'm not sure I can get into details, but enjoy your day alone. I will love myself a little bit better today. Be careful of people using you, and of using others.

 

[Mr210]

real talk I have been single for about 9 months and Ive been enjoying it. For the past 7 years I had been in 4 different relationships and this is the longest ive been single since college. I probably wont start dating until summer time and even then Im not going to jump in a relationship as quick as I have been doing. I think thats been part of the problem with the lack of success of these last few relationships

 

[Tunez]

Keep jerking off breh

 

[StarGirl]

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[MammaSaidKnockYouOut]

Just get a hooker.

 

[Hope]

Keep jerking off breh

I think I've injured myself recently, which actually made it impossible to fall back on old behaviors. Had to sit with myself without wanting to. I'm horny as hell. I'm ready to get back out there, definitely by April.

Just get a hooker.

Illegal and leads to drugs use. Not living that way today.

 

[chickenteriyaki]

You sound really sad and lonely. Hope you feel better and find a nice guy who will treat you well.

 

[Hope]

You sound really sad and lonely. Hope you feel better and find a nice guy who will treat you well.

Definitely lonely. Not sure if I'm sad or just bored and unsatisfied. I'll feel better in April. Hate January-March.


Thanks for the well-wishes.

 

[MammaSaidKnockYouOut]

I think I've injured myself recently, which actually made it impossible to fall back on old behaviors. Had to sit with myself without wanting to. I'm horny as hell. I'm ready to get back out there, definitely by April.


Illegal and leads to drugs use. Not living that way today.

Lol How does getting a hooker lead to drug use? Do you download songs online because you can get fined big time since it's illegal and sued by record companies.

 

[calixprynce]

Feeling down about not celebrating a pagan holiday ? damn they got bigger problems

 

[Hope]

Lol How does getting a hooker lead to drug use? Do you download songs online because you can get fined big time since it's illegal and sued by record companies.

I purchase albums and album tickets. Have paid streaming services.

The only illegal thing I did was drugs and assaults. But that was when I was younger. I follow the law very well. Gay, Black, mentally ill people don't have much space to not follow rules.

 

[Neil Tyson]

I think I've injured myself recently, which actually made it impossible to fall back on old behaviors. Had to sit with myself without wanting to. I'm horny as hell. I'm ready to get back out there, definitely by April.


Illegal and leads to drugs use. Not living that way today.

What? The most I've been offered was weed.

 

[At30wecashout]

:justgodude:Whatever. Relationships have pros and cons, so you got to experience the best and the worst.

Single brehs? Don't get the upside of having someone who cares for them, no matter the inevitable downsides.

Everything good comes with compromise, so this "Be happy you are alone" bullshyt only works for folks who were stuck in shytty relationships.

#BLB Be Lonely Brehs.:blacknerdlost:I put on for my people 28 years strong.