Having health insurance and planning for the future are the bare essentials for being a provider imo
I tend to agree with some of the females upset about it. I was annoyed with my wife recently when our health insurance went up and it was open season so wanted to discuss with her about the options we have and which fit best for our family and her response was “you’re so good at that sort of thing I trust you to figure it out”
I contribute a good amount to my TSP and savings, I don’t monitor it monthly or anything but we got a breakdown in the mail end of the year and my wife was shocked how much was in there. I asked her how much she had in her 401k and her response was basically “Oh idk I think I contribute but I’m not sure”. Like breh that chit is annoying AF to me. How do you not know stuff like that, and why are you not contributing to your future for when your 50-60?
Women want to feel like “my man’s got it” when it comes to big things like that.