To a degree I understand what he is talking about but it sounds like a big-headed POV. Men wanting to try me is 100% true though its subtle.
There are no cons to being in shape or fit..... Bullshyt content.... and you're suspect for posting it
A major thing about his post is he said "In shape". That can mean a lot of things. I am in lifting shape. I am not in running shape

or boxing shape, or swimming shape, etc.
What HE is talking about is being swole whether it's on the leaner side or just getting big. There are downsides I can name off the top of my head:
1. Small waist, larger legs and glutes = all pants fit like shyt unless they have the stretch material. Also legs rubbing holes into pants within a couple of months.
2. If I itch in the dead center of my back, I can no longer reach that mawfukka to scratch it.
3. I eat way more food. Not worse food, just more, and that shyt ain't cheap.
4. Maintaining it means having to put folks in check who constantly want to go out to eat or are always in your face with some bullshyt.
5. You get friends or family who clearly have insecurities making odd comments. I had a guy at work feeling a way because I do what he does and maintain a sort of physique.
There are downsides but its like complaining about your girl putting out every day or two.

Boo hoo.