Transgendered children. "who is responsible?"

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Is it the parents, the doctors, or society fault? Should it be legal to change a 5 years physical gender? Should a child be allowed to dictate his or hers sexual identity?



A five-year-old British boy has been diagnosed with gender identity disorder, which makes him one of the youngest children in the U.K. to have the condition, the Telegraph reported.

Zachary Avery has expressed that he was born in the wrong body since he was just three. The boy’s mother, Theresa Avery, initially thought that her son was going through a phase but Zachary would often become angry if he was referred to as a boy and he told his parents he wanted to wear girl’s clothes.

Zachary’s parents took him to doctors and after months of studies and visits they concluded that the boy had gender identity disorder -- a diagnosis that describes someone who is significantly discontent with their gender.

A year later, Zachary’s look has dramatically change. He now has pigtails, pink glasses and a collection of dolls. He’s called Zachy and his parents say he is much happier.

"I would love to have my son back, but I want him to be happy," Theresa said. "If this is the route he wants to take, if this is what makes him happy, then so be it. I would rather him have my full support. He likes playing with his sister’s old toys but he still loves Dr Who too and playing with his brother. And we still put some neutral clothes in his wardrobe if he ever decides he wants to wear them."

"We leave it up to him to decide what he wants to do. If he changes his mind and wants to be a boy again then he does, but if he doesn’t, he doesn’t," she added. "People need to be aware of this condition because it’s very common but even many family support workers have never heard of cases in children."


Zachy’s school backed his parents and told students that Zach "felt he was a girl trapped in a boy’s body." The school even changed some of its bathrooms to unisex facilities.

Theresa said that she noticed Zach’s change was around the end of 2010 when he became enamored with the cartoon character Dora the Explorer and dressed in girl’s clothes.

"He just turned round to me one day when he was three and said: ’Mummy, I’m a girl’. I assumed he was just going through a phase and just left it at that," Zach’s mother said. "But then it got serious and he would become upset if anyone referred to him as a boy."

Zach even tried to cut off his penis because he was so frustrated. Theresa and her husband Darren brought their son to a specialist in London who diagnosed Zach with gender identity disorder.

The Associated Press reported that there is a growing number of young children and teens who feel that they were born in the wrong body. Many of them are receiving support from family and doctors who give them sex-change treatments.

Some believe that treating children who are under 18-years-old could potentially be dangerous. Dr. Margaret Moon, a member of the American Academy of Pediatrics’ bioethics committee, said that there are ethical concerns when treating young children and that the child’s parents’ "motives should be closely examined." Others say that doctors need to be aware that there are kids with these feelings and that they should be treated.

Sex hormones could pose life-threatening side effects, such as blood clots and cancer. Dr. Norman Spack, the director of the country’s first gender identity medical clinics at Children’s Hospital Boston, said he uses low doses on his patients but they should be monitored. He also said that gender-reassignment surgery is only done by a small amount of U.S. doctors on patients who are under 18.

5-Year-Old British Boy Diagnosed With Gender Identity Disorder :: EDGE Boston

It's a bold new world out there brehs! Emasculation is not the only problem we dealing with
 

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No One is at fault.

If it feels right (pause) then they should do it. I believe biologically speaking they are really trapped in the wrong body.
 
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I blame that bullshyt on mothers and lack of fathers.
uncle's play a big part on how boys turn out....
my uncles are all marines and even my uncle who
came back from Nam and did the "real life"
pimp thing had jewels to give me.
everything was pushups and punches in the chest.
this generation is pumping out sissys at alarming rates.
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I don't know if "blame" is the right word, but I fukking can't stand when people force that on their kids. I had a women's studies professor that tries really fukking hard to raise her son as a transgender woman. It's kinda fukked up, because I know for a fact that she's hammering it into his mind that anything masculine is bad and should not be entertained while anything feminine is good. He doesn't really have a choice because he's not informed in his decision.
 

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I blame that bullshyt on mothers and lack of fathers.
uncle's play a big part on how boys turn out....
my uncles are all marines and even my uncle who
came back from Nam and did the "real life"
pimp thing had jewels to give me.
everything was pushups and punches in the chest.
this generation is pumping out sissys at alarming rates.
a0yqua.jpg

:what:

We're talking about a 4-5 year old kid. Nobody uncles are puching them in the chest and giving them "the game" at 4 years old.

I personally think they should let the child live, sometimes people grow out of things. I mean what if every girl who was once a tomboy got a sex change?
 

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No One is at fault.

If it feels right (pause) then they should do it. I believe biologically speaking they are really trapped in the wrong body.

Yeah but the boy is only 5 years old. He doesn't have the mental capacity, maturity, experience, and intellect to make such a decision. Clearly the parent is at fault here. If your child is going to be gay or whatever then atleast wait until he's old enough to choose.

I don't know if "blame" is the right word, but I fukking can't stand when people force that on their kids. I had a women's studies professor that tries really fukking hard to raise her son as a transgender woman. It's kinda fukked up, because I know for a fact that she's hammering it into his mind that anything masculine is bad and should not be entertained while anything feminine is good. He doesn't really have a choice because he's not informed in his decision.

I knew a Filipino woman who was like that. She wanted a son so desperately that she didn't even love her daughter. Her daughter, desperate for her mother's affection, ended up getting a sex change.
 
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:what:

We're talking about a 4-5 year old kid. Nobody uncles are puching them in the chest and giving them "the game" at 4 years old.

I personally think they should let the child live, sometimes people grow out of things. I mean what if every girl who was once a tomboy got a sex change?

nikka let me had picked up a damn doll at 4......
if they didnt dislocate my damn shoulder snatching
that bytch outta my damn hand they were checking
the shyt outta my mama....
women allow that bullshyt...
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I blame that bullshyt on mothers and lack of fathers.
uncle's play a big part on how boys turn out....
my uncles are all marines and even my uncle who
came back from Nam and did the "real life"
pimp thing had jewels to give me.
everything was pushups and punches in the chest.
this generation is pumping out sissys at alarming rates.
a0yqua.jpg

The boy in the article has a father, so that theory is out.
 

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Yeah but the boy is only 5 years old. He doesn't have the mental capacity, maturity, experience, and intellect to make such a decision. Clearly the parent is at fault here. If your child is going to be gay or whatever then atleast wait until he's old enough to choose.

This is a touchy suspect that delves into parenting.

I personally feel you should not inhibit your child if they have a clear intention to dress up like female or male and are consistent about it despite your admonishment of this behavior.

If the child is 12 months going on to five insistent on dressing up as a boy or a girl, I should not stop them, It frustrating for us both for that to happen.

I just want to add this caveat that this child will be bullied no matter if he decides to come out now at the age of five or if he decides to come out at the age of 16. He/She is different and that will not change.

 
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The boy in the article has a father, so that theory is out.

His father is a weak ass cat.....
aint no way.
I come home and my son is prancing around in
a strawberry shortcake costume with her smiling
and cheering him on.
i'm gonna beat that bytch up under the kitchen table
and explain to him that what he was doing is for funboys
and that his mama deserved that "panda package"
i just blessed her with.
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This is a touchy suspect that delves into parenting.

I personally feel you should not inhibit your child if they have a clear intention to dress up like female or male and are consistent about it despite your admonishment of this behavior.

If the child is 12 months going on to five insistent on dressing up as a boy or a girl, I should not stop them, It frustrating for us both for that to happen.

I just want to add this caveat that this child will be bullied no matter if he decides to come out now at the age of five or if he decides to come out at the age of 16. He/She is different and that will not change.

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That kid took cues from his sister IMO, I have some nephews and the youngest one always did whatever his older brother did, as early as 6 months on he was trying to crawl after his older brother. By 16 months he did virtually everything he saw his brother doing, even trying to vocalize words he heard his brother say.
 

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That kid took cues from his sister IMO, I have some nephews and the youngest one always did whatever his older brother did, as early as 6 months on he was trying to crawl after his older brother. By 16 months he did virtually everything he saw his brother doing, even trying to vocalize words he heard his brother say.

Pre School Kindergarten is the early test to see whether the child is consistent about these Cues or is just following his older siblings. If he/she continues to dress up as a girl or boy despite the admonishment of his peers then he has shown consistency and conviction about how he wants to dress and I will allow it personally. :manny:
 

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Yeah but the boy is only 5 years old. He doesn't have the mental capacity, maturity, experience, and intellect to make such a decision. Clearly the parent is at fault here. If your child is going to be gay or whatever then atleast wait until he's old enough to choose.
The point is that it isnt a decision. Any determining factors have clearly already served their roles before the kid is old enough to know what any of it means. There's no "choice" to be made.

And if your kid is like that, trying to smack him around and force him to be what he's not only fukks things up worse. They may play along for years but eventually, well thats where downlow maried dudes with kids and all these self-hating, Conservative Christian politicians that get caught with a male prostitute one day...thats where those come from.
 
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