True or false? The more sexual partners you have, the worse your sex life will be with your future spouse.
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how is sex gonna be worse the more experience you have?
logically it doesn't make sense. not even with sex but with any skill or activity.
the more math you do, the more you will struggle being a math teacher kinda logic
just say you don't want someone with a high body count and keep it moving. stop trying to justify it like there is real science behind it.
how is sex gonna be worse the more experience you have?
logically it doesn't make sense. not even with sex but with any skill or activity.
the more math you do, the more you will struggle being a math teacher kinda logic
just say you don't want someone with a high body count and keep it moving. stop trying to justify it like there is real science behind it.
The Pledge
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Disagree.
People just be tweeting anything
F*ckthemkids
Superstar
The only way I can see this being the case is if you had a WILD ass sex life, and ended up with a vanilla wife that only likes certain positions/style of sex. Then I could see the person growing frustrated.
SupaDupaFresh
Superstar
He'll no. The complete opposite.
The absolute worst thing you can step into a marriage or a relationship with--especially as a man--is a low body count and complete immaturity when it comes to sex. As a man you got to sow those oats, get it out your system, feel fulfilled, know yourself sexually and emotionally, and develop a level of maturity when it comes to sex, relating to the opposite sex, and holding down a relationship that can only come from experience after experience.
Worst thing in the damn world is some lonely mamas boy going straight from his parents crib to being married ALWAYS a recipe for confusion and disaster.
And the same is true for women. When I was young my father once told me to make sure any girl I get with is a young virgin. Don't get with no girl that's been all up with other men. Even as a youngin I thought this through and felt it was the dumbest advice I was ever given. Is my ego as a man so weak and fragile that I'm willing to subject the rest of my life to being stuck to a woman who has no sexual confidence and has no idea whatsoever how to please a man or how to even please herself. No. That doesn't sound like a fun rest of my life just so I can say I'm the only one who been in my girl. Idiotic.
Sexual experience and confidence is part of maturity and growth. Healthy, grounded, and positive sex is an important part of a relationship. A marriage between anything but two people who are emotionally mature, grown, and sexually confident is going to fail, especially when it's time to give up and dedicate everything to a child.
The absolute worst thing you can step into a marriage or a relationship with--especially as a man--is a low body count and complete immaturity when it comes to sex. As a man you got to sow those oats, get it out your system, feel fulfilled, know yourself sexually and emotionally, and develop a level of maturity when it comes to sex, relating to the opposite sex, and holding down a relationship that can only come from experience after experience.
Worst thing in the damn world is some lonely mamas boy going straight from his parents crib to being married ALWAYS a recipe for confusion and disaster.
And the same is true for women. When I was young my father once told me to make sure any girl I get with is a young virgin. Don't get with no girl that's been all up with other men. Even as a youngin I thought this through and felt it was the dumbest advice I was ever given. Is my ego as a man so weak and fragile that I'm willing to subject the rest of my life to being stuck to a woman who has no sexual confidence and has no idea whatsoever how to please a man or how to even please herself. No. That doesn't sound like a fun rest of my life just so I can say I'm the only one who been in my girl. Idiotic.
Sexual experience and confidence is part of maturity and growth. Healthy, grounded, and positive sex is an important part of a relationship. A marriage between anything but two people who are emotionally mature, grown, and sexually confident is going to fail, especially when it's time to give up and dedicate everything to a child.
False and I speak from experience. I met my wife when I was in my early 30s and she was in her early 20s. By then, she had been in 2 relationships her entire life and was a few months out of her most recent one. I never asked her body count, because that’s weird, but I know I’m WAAAAY past hers and all these years later, our sex hasn’t fallen off.
Pro tip: Save your nut for your woman and not your hand and you’ll be aight.
Pro tip: Save your nut for your woman and not your hand and you’ll be aight.
daiquiridream
Pro
Not for me. Any meaningless hookups I had in the past makes me appreciate the deep connection I have with my spouse more. Past sex has given me the impression that what's out there isn't as good as the one who put in a lot of effort learning how to keep satisfying me after the honeymoon phase wore off. I've never been turned on this much without the commitment. And if I didn't already have those previous experiences I'd unknowingly fantasize about other potential options out there.
SupaDupaFresh
Superstar
Anyone who lived that fast live and walked away from it has probably developed such a sense of maturity and personal preferences for sex that it would be impossible to find compatability with someone more "vanilla" and prudish, no matter how good she look.
This person has probably also developed a maturity when it comes on to his personal growth and financial stability moving forward that is less compatible with the single man fast life of partying and hooking up. I don't think it's unrealistic at all that someone who was once accustomed to group sex and hooking up and things can eventually get tired of that life, settle down with all the fantasies, and genuinely desire a more grounded and manageable life. Including a connection with a good partner.
But that's why it's so important to live out a fulfilling sex life when you are young. I was raised by lazy ass parents and had to learn this the hard way myself. Theres nothing wrong with having your kinks and stuff. Most partners understand this and just need communication. But If you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s and still so obsessed with endless dopamine feuling porno fantasies that you can't find compatability with anyone other than a roleplaying stripper that's a deeper problem that speaks to one's maturity with themselves than their ability to relate with others.
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Kyle C. Barker
Migos VERZUZ Mahalia Jackson
Not true at all.
What the hell lol
What the hell lol