Uh, what the hell happened? (date who flaked SO HARD)
- Thread starter JameisNewton
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JameisNewton
Pro
Like NinoWhat a scrub ass bytch if she did all that story telling just to flake. Smh. That shyt just irked me.
Cancel her breh.
this your first time getting flaked on OP? It's not a big deal...it happens if you had enough dates/talked to enough women....I have a zero tolerance level for flakes now...my time is extremely valuable...even waiting 5 mins is a sign of disrespect..
JameisNewton
Pro
no but this is the first time it went down in this manner. Where she actually claimed to be on her way and then actually be there. Just strange stuff
mcdivit85
Superstar
One of two things probably happened.
1. She saw you before you saw her, and she dipped. You didn't mention if you met her online, but it sounds like you might have. If so, maybe what she thought she was meeting was not what showed up.
2. Her real dude called up and she went running. I've said this before, but I'll say it again. Online dating is 10% dating and 90% attention. Most of the chicks who have profiles are already in a situation, so they're just looking for attention. Her real dude may have been blowing her off for a few days/weeks, she created a profile, met you and setup a date. Dude hit her up and she chose him over a date with you.
Sh#t happens, breh. Chalk it and learn.
Peace
1. She saw you before you saw her, and she dipped. You didn't mention if you met her online, but it sounds like you might have. If so, maybe what she thought she was meeting was not what showed up.
2. Her real dude called up and she went running. I've said this before, but I'll say it again. Online dating is 10% dating and 90% attention. Most of the chicks who have profiles are already in a situation, so they're just looking for attention. Her real dude may have been blowing her off for a few days/weeks, she created a profile, met you and setup a date. Dude hit her up and she chose him over a date with you.
Sh#t happens, breh. Chalk it and learn.
Peace
Bless't
Living the dream
Great point. Rep.
I've met girls who are really looking for something true then I've met girls that did exactly what you described.
Its a grimey world out here.
mcdivit85
Superstar
You have to think about it logically.
If a chick were looking to meet, date and build a relationship with someone, how would she act?
- Would she play games about meeting for a date? No
- Would she flake on the date? No
- Would she take hours to reply to every text and call? No
- Would she always be "busy"? No
Dudes try to comprise algebraic equations trying to figure women out. It aint that hard. Men and women aren't that complicated. If she's interested, she'll make time and show effort. Same with men.
Peace
Bless't
Living the dream
I completely agree. But I've had situations come up where we actually do meet, go out that night, she spends the night then I never hear from her again. Just wham bam. Thats it. I know there are grimey women out there just looking for a nut and cheating on their bf.
No women in this thread. Wonder why?
Doobie Doo
Veteran
Op if you reschedule u simp, charge her to the game
mcdivit85
Superstar
I completely agree. But I've had situations come up where we actually do meet, go out that night, she spends the night then I never hear from her again. Just wham bam. Thats it. I know there are grimey women out there just looking for a nut and cheating on their bf.
You smashed though
Chicks get cheated on. Link up with new dude while she's in the "rebound" stage. Smash. She comes back to her senses and then goes back to her real dude.
This is how chicks stay with dudes that cheat on them. You see a chick who makes you think "why does she stay with him when he cheats(ed) on her." Most likely, she did what those chicks did with you....they just never tell their dude though. It just helps them deal with his cheating better.
Peace
SheWantTheD
Veteran
You a good girl alrightWhen I flake I like to stop responding the day of before they leave the house , that's what the good girls do
SheWantTheD
Veteran
Women love random dikk.I completely agree. But I've had situations come up where we actually do meet, go out that night, she spends the night then I never hear from her again. Just wham bam. Thats it. I know there are grimey women out there just looking for a nut and cheating on their bf.