Unpopular opinion: If a Whooping isn’t enough to set a child straight then they’d destined to be arrested/trouble maker when they get older

[BrothaZay]

This discourse of whoopings are bad you need to explain to your child stuff instead blah blah is something I honestly disagree with. And I’ve been putting a lot of thought into it as well

This morning i came to the full conclusion

I was remembering what I got my first whooping for.

I was 6 years old. 1st grade. Me and my friend skipped school. Soon as I got home(my teachers dropped a dime) all the adults in the house told me I was getting a whooping when my mom got home. And sure enough I did.

I didn’t need her to explain why. I didn’t need her to hug me after. I knew exactly why I got my ass whooped. Even more i never skipped school
Again. Even had perfect attendance one year.

Throughout the rest of my childhood if I got whooped for something I knew why and I knew I deserved punishment for it. I never needed my mommy to explain to me why something I did was wrong. The only whooping where I didn’t know what I did was wrong(and still don’t) is when my mom whooped me for letting it be known in the check out line that we were paying in food stamps

This brings me to why I said what I said in the title

If whoopings aren’t enough it’s because one of two things:

- the child had extreme behavioral issues and will do whatever they want regardless until life humbles them

- they’re not smart. Literally too dumb to know what they’re doing is wrong and why it’s wrong. Dumb ppl usually don’t do well


A whopping is literally all it takes to keep a regular, not dumb child from becoming a knucklehead

I know it’s an uncomfortable truth but most people won’t admit they aren’t as smart and they think they are

 

[Apprentice]

This is making the assumption parents hit their children in reaction to unreasonable behavior

But we kno that’s not always the case

nikkas be fukkdd up, alcoholics, adulterers having kids

Put 2 bands on the Patriots and they lose to the raiders

Now junior whining he wants McDonald’s, I’m off 4 shots off henny. He gettin all shyt smacked out of him for nothing, I’m jus mad

How does the lil nikka correct his behavior in this instance?

It sound like fan fic but it’s the reality of households in America

 

[BrothaZay]

This is making the assumption parents hit their children in reaction to unreasonable behavior

But we kno that’s not always the case

nikkas be fukkdd up, alcoholics, adulterers having kids

Put 2 bands on the Patriots and they lose to the raiders

Now junior whining he wants McDonald’s, I’m off 4 shots off henny. He gettin all shyt smacked out of him for nothing, I’m jus mad

How does the lil nikka correct his behavior in this instance?

It sound like fan fic but it’s the reality of households in America

That’s a total different topic. One is abuse. And abuse isn’t just physical

 

[TRUEST]

Some kids are just born with a devilish purpose. Their soul is satanic much like the souls (intelligence) of predators are.

 

[africngiant]

whooping and extreme punishment can just build more resentment for the child so they can act out later.

nobody’s tryna be an incel out here

 

[BrothaZay]

whooping and extreme punishment can just build more resentment for the child so they can act out later.

nobody’s tryna be an incel out here

Lol the post is literally just about whoopings. Why are y’all adding extras?

 

[africngiant]

Lol the post is literally just about whoopings. Why are y’all adding extras?

i put it as a form of extreme punishment. if you’re constantly placing fear in your child as a parent, they’re just gonna end up being sneaky and yearning for an escape from the stress.

some parents will whoop your ass because you didn’t take the chicken out the freezer and constantly put you under task while not developing any sense of independence or belongingness

let them experience life a little within reason of course and they probably wouldn’t be so hardheaded about shyt

 

[Cheese McNair]

Yeah I knew kids that were whooped with switches and they still got locked up as adult. Knew kids that just got talked to and they got locked up too.

Some people just have “it” in them. They naturally don’t care about consequences. As a parent, if you can guide that trait correctly(no textbook on that) then it can end up working out for the kid.

 

[Matt504]

Beatings, Whippings, whoopings etc. Do not work.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

It never worked you have years or failed parents to study from over many generations. Instilling Fear fear can only give a temporary hold and there is no gauge for where discipline ends and assault starts.

If your kid can't learn to respect you and understand what you tell them you have already lost. A smart child hates to disappoint a parent. Physical intervention is a last resort. Not the go to.

 

[Louisville Slugz]

 

[Apprentice]

That’s a total different topic. One is abuse. And abuse isn’t just physical

But that’s where the conversation gets iffy tho

Many parents don’t have discernment or temperament to kno when is a good time to discipline they child

 

[Louisville Slugz]

Whoop that ass

 

[breakfuss]

This is slave talk. Not to be disrespectful to our ancestors but we really need to let go of this way of thinking and childrearing .

 

[DripSzn]

If you have good parents, whooping is properly utilized when necessary.