UPDATE PG2. They don't f with me lol

[Rozay Oro]

Lmao good point




This girl, she from an app that I added on Snapchat long ago like months ago. Idk she probably just expecting a come thru. She usually didn't post shyt and only recently would check my story.


The second girl, a girl I'd talk to at work. I actually dig her, I'd like something serious with her. I decided to add from the work group chat today. Like a fukk it, cause at work my position change so I don't get to talk to her much anymore.


Girl 1 posted something in her story so I just went for it. After something was settled, girl 2 accepted the request.


I know the whole don't shyt where you eat but Id like to try something serious.

 

[bigdaddy88]

if she/he likes ya does it really matter?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

I read once that it’s not a good idea because you don’t get to talk to your date during a movie. Won’t really get to know whomever it is you’re taking out if y’all don’t talk...

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Dumb idea dont do it..unless...mayyyyybe..u meet up for food before and have a lengthy conversation

 

[re'up]

Never, you can't talk, or really face each other, and that is the most important part of a first date. If the movies is a must, (it really shouldn't be, unless good cause) wait til a few dates in.

Movies as a date likely started in adolescents, with limited options for spending time together alone, so it became somewhat traditional, but it makes almost no sense, outside of that context or people who love moves (I do, most women I meet, don't) or just a lazy comfortable thing.

Teenagers went to the movies because you were together and unsupervised, and in the dark, and it didn't cost much, and seems way more "adult" than sitting in a Jack in the Box or whatever.

I remember on a double date when I was like 14 or 15, so uncomfortable, watching some terrible post 9/11 Arnold Swartchenegger terrorist revenge fantasy movie, I was like why am I sitting her watching this with her?

 

[Rozay Oro]

if she/he likes ya does it really matter?

I'm not perfect but most girls don't be on that. Picking at the smallest things and weighting options.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

bowling is the perfect first date

then go to the movie as a 2nd

 

[Mowgli]

Movies have no buffer for convo so there's no way to bond unless you going somewhere afterwards. Don't end the night with a movie....

Unless it's an empty theatre .

 

[Chrishaune]

What are you planning for this woman? Are you trying to take her serious? If so, then you will need some time to talk. Before or after the movie. Connecting spirit to spirit is very important.

 

[Commish]

What y'all think?

The purpose of going out on a date is to see if there is any chemistry and compatibility while having fun.

How can you accomplish the above by going to the movies? You can't have a conversation and you can't see each other. Your attention will be on the movie, not each other.

Plus, the movies is a lil expensive to be spending on someone you don't know nor have any known connection with, IMO.

I don't even think dinner should be done on first dates..

But, of course there are exceptions..

If you insist upon going to the movies, then at least meet & greet somewhere where you & your date can see each other face to face, interact and see if there is a spark??

After a lil time on the date, if the both of you wanna catch a flick, dinner or both, then proceed. That way, there is better chance that the date will be a success, although no gurantees..

 

[HearNoEvil]

Take her to a coffee shop that's close to home, or somewhere you can eat a light meal.

Conversate, get to know her, share a few laughs. A couple light touches here and there. Then you're just waiting for the look.

Once she gives it to you, you know it's time to go. Invite her back to your place, then see where the evening takes you.

Players don't go on movie dates, breh.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

If it's just for sex and you already know you will get the drawals going to the movies is no biggie.

 

[Dad]

No. The purpose is to get to know each other on the first couple of dates.

 

[Blankthawtz]

dinner....then straight to her crib for NetPrime and chill....

 

[Address_Unknown]

Not really, but the movies should be paired with an activity AFTERWARDS where you can discuss the movie and interact more freely than you would in the theatre 'cause you're not going to be in there talking and being obnoxious now, are you?

With that being said, there is the chance you might take her to the movies, not say anything while watching, and go someplace else to stare at each other awkwardly if y'all ain't feeling each other like that, so unless you've already picked up a chatty type vibe from her and you can match her energy and y'all talk on some natural conversation shyt, you might do best to leaving the movies for a third or fourth date, after y'all done build up a rapport and go see something y'all both really wanna see.

Best of luck to you with all this shyt, breh.