Walking Away From An Argument Is A Skill/Art

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Just finished my shift with this


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She tried her hardest to get me going......gave her an "aight" and she was seething
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Got off my bus still trying to get the last word and gave her the

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But with the doors closing instead of a window

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Yeah lately I’ve been too busy and tired and bored to engage with the back and forths. You just get to a point where you realize just how ignorant the person in front of you is.

Once I engage you in debate, and I quickly discover that you have a mental blockage in your mind I cannot dislodge that's preventing you from seeing the light I tune out and let you win..
 

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Triggering content. Don’t even get me started.
Usually I’m pretty chill. But when I get to “No fukks given” levels…Issa wrap.
This.

For the most part I let shyt slide (Unless it's something personal)

But if it's that person that keeps repetitively pushing an issue I lose my cool and go off.
 

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You know why we argue back … because most of the time we don’t expect the argument. So emotions kick in before logic.
:ohhh:This is so true. I’ve learned that you can say the simplest shyt. Some real basic fire is hot shyt and there will be somebody coming to argue. But it’s so basic and obvious that you think “nah they not serious…lemme figure this out”
The longer it goes on, the more irritated you are because they usually saying some shyt that does not correlate to reality.
Our brains are hardwired to not accept change easily. We like patterns. We like hearing truthful things that reinforce and validate reality. Having somebody just flagrantly tell you the opposite of what you know with no evidence or proof—having them take you all the way there only to find out they don’t even have the intellectual capacity to understand what they arguing about?

That shyt can make you wanna two-hand choke somebody. And I don’t know why. Why not just let them talk their shyt?

I’m still working through some cosmic concepts around the power of true and the danger of allowing lies to go unchallenged. There’s something powerful that makes us react to hearing lies or wrongness in a visceral way. That’ll be what I concentrate on my next mental trip.
 

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Somethin I need to work on mastering... Verbally got into it with a fellow manager in front of subordinates and paid for it with a documented discussion from upper management.....

Hard to walk away when someone keeps pokin the sleeping bear... :ohlawd:


You need to think about the long game breh. If you have beef with a coworker, especially another manager don’t even disagree with them or act upset. Create multiple dating profiles with their name and picture and have them on some wild shyt. Find a way to expose the profiles to other employees but make sure it doesn’t lead back to you. Use a VPN. Reinforce their social media posts it by hiring a cheap sex worker or someone to come looking for them at work or home. Like, if it’s some morally upright white bread guy, have a ugly tranny make a scene claiming he gave it a STD.
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EDIT: Pro Tip! Study emails that he's sent out so you can study his writing style.
 
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