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Sorry for the long read, one of the guys I know from work going thru it. Dude does it all, goes to work, the gym, takes care of the kids, cleans the house, cooks, etc doesn't cheat
Yesterday he had tickets for Earth wind and fire, called his wife she said yes she wants to go, he had dinner etc planned. All day yesterday she's blowing up his phone for bs last minute errands so his day was fukked. Then she waits until like an hour before the concert to come up with an excuse not to go.
Today, he does a shift at a facility, cleans the house, etc etc etc and even has dinner waiting for her on the stove before he comes to work(7p-7a) . He fukking goes off (usually he's laid back) she's calling him accusing him of cheating and makes him show all types of verification of where he was today(Google location, time sheet, etc) finally he gets off the phone and tells me"I'm not leaving because I don't want @anotherman raising my daughter, but from now on I'm def cheating"
I honestly had no response for him. So I'm asking y'all, is he wrong? And yes, they're both black.
 
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Obviously not, and tbh this how the bulk of women get cheated on, being difficult for no logical reason. Introducing a woman to your life as your spouse can either make things smoother, or rougher.

If smooth that's the groove , if rough you can't cuff.

Problem is bytches like to play characters/front to lock down men. Once they're comfortable/have leverage they sink into who they really are, some deem this "change" but I just see it as them revealing who they always were/were comfortable being.

Now that you have children in the mix you can't "uncuff" without repercussion, (not to mention property/financial costs)

The only way you can remain in this without taking the bytches' brakes or hollerin' at Agent 47 to handle sumn right quick is to cheat. It'll relieve stress, improve mood, and in general you'll care less about the broad, her well being, what she does, etc. It's the only way when your in check (marriage + kids)
 
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He lost. I bet he took that bum too seriously too quickly.
 
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Bossino said:
Obviously not, and tbh this how the bulk of women get cheated on, being difficult for no logical reason. Introducing a woman to your life as your spouse can either make things smoother, or rougher.

If smooth that's the groove , if rough you can't cuff.

Problem is bytches like to play characters/front to lock down men. Once they're comfortable/have leverage they sink into who they really are, some deem this "change" but I just see it as them revealing who they always were/were comfortable being.

Now that you have children in the mix you can't "uncuff" without repercussion, (not to mention property/financial costs)

The only way you can remain in this without taking the bytches' brakes or hollerin' at Agent 47 to handle sumn right quick is to cheat. It'll relieve stress, improve mood, and in general you'll care less about the broad, her well being, what she does, etc. It's the only way when your in check (marriage + kids)
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Ol Man Skrenf said:
Sorry for the long read, one of the guys I know from work going thru it. Dude does it all, goes to work, the gym, takes care of the kids, cleans the house, cooks, etc doesn't cheat
Yesterday he had tickets for Earth wind and fire, called his wife she said yes she wants to go, he had dinner etc planned. All day yesterday she's blowing up his phone for bs last minute errands so his day was fukked. Then she waits until like an hour before the concert to come up with an excuse not to go.
Today, he does a shift at a facility, cleans the house, etc etc etc and even has dinner waiting for her on the stove before he comes to work(7p-7a) . He fukking goes off (usually he's laid back) she's calling him accusing him of cheating and makes him show all types of verification of where he was today(Google location, time sheet, etc) finally he gets off the phone and tells me"I'm not leaving because I don't want @anotherman raising my daughter, but from now on I'm def cheating"
I honestly had no response for him. So I'm asking y'all, is he wrong? And yes, they're both black.
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SHe knows he's not cheating. She's falsely accusing him for one of two reasons, either she's cheating and is trying to offset her guilt by accusing him of cheating so that way her cheating seems like shes "Cheating back." AND/OR it's a control thing and she knows falsely accusing him of cheating will guilt him into doing more for her than she's already doing. AND/OR she's a bored pathological liar who makes up complete fabirications to start arguments out of boredom.

Either way she doesn't really fukk with this nikka but was at least wise enough to go with the good man she can manipulate.
 
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He married the wrong woman. The fact it got to the point where she treating him like his son not his husband says alot. It's gonna take time but he has to slowly reestablish respect. Little shyt like state what you're going to do but nothing more or less. Be valuable, not available.
 
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