Was I wrong for how I came at her

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She’s clingy as hell.

I don’t know the background to your situation or what you’re going through, but if she’s not trying to give you space and pestering you to this degree you might want to re-evaluate dealing with her to begin with.

She wants to have you at the center of her world and all to herself and that’s cool if you are a man without much going on.

When you start handling business or dealing with real world shyt she’s always going to be tripping like this though based on what I see here.

She is what is. You can deal with here where she is or you can move on.
 

Kyle C. Barker

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She’s clingy as hell.

I don’t know the background to your situation or what you’re going through, but if she’s not trying to give you space and pestering you to this degree you might want to re-evaluate dealing with her to begin with.

She wants to have you at the center of her world and all to herself and that’s cool if you are a man without much going on.

When you start handling business or dealing with real world shyt she’s always going to be tripping like this though based on what I see here.

She is what is. You can deal with here where she is or you can move on.


This.

Going to the gym or doing anything without her will be an issue that will turn into an argument.
 

Smokin Rider

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She is selfish and manipulative, I've dealt with her type before. No free time to your own without it being an issue, says dumb stuff and when I threatened to leave its "you hear what you want to hear" then its "ok, I said that, but thats not even what I meant by that". Good luck
 

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I honestly think she just wanna spend time with you and ain't mean nothing else by it. With your job I know it's hard being on the road all the time. She wanna be there for you but it seem like you not allowing her too breh
 

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Not at all, actually handled it way better than you should have, all things considered.

You coming to Indy or is the funeral in Texas? If the former, stop by taps and dolls tonight. $3 long islands so yk how that's gonna look :shaq:
 

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Not at all, actually handled it way better than you should have, all things considered.

You coming to Indy or is the funeral in Texas? If the former, stop by taps and dolls tonight. $3 long islands so yk how that's gonna look :shaq:
Thr funeral in indy. Good look
 

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Nah, you stood your ground and told her where to get off. Now she likes and respects you even more.

The BS will continue but the more you respect yourself, the less it will happen. You have the upperhand but don't overplay it.

Crazy how women will go on about you "not making time for us to be together" then spend 70% of that "together" time talking about themselves. Sometimes it feels like all they really want is a pair of ears willing to listen to their crap. Then they wonder why some men prefer to deal with a crisis/trauma alone.
 

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This chick is needy, and emotional. There's no way you're going to reason with her in that state.

I'd have told Danielle, "Sorry babe just been dealing with a lot lately. Imma make it up to you as soon as I get back in town :youngsabo:"

You gotta tell them what they want to hear to get what you want. Get a therapist if you need emotional support/understanding cause most these chicks ain't here for all that.
 
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